Wednesday, September 17, 2014

WHY DO GIRLS FALL FOR THE ‘WRONG’ GUY?

Does he leave you hanging in the dust? Does he tell you that he’s not into you? Ouch. Well I think that’s really a hard one. Why do every girls fall to the complex guys in town?
 I remember this line once while watching 13 going on 30, this girl ask J.Garner “How come the ones you like, never like you?” I mean its stupid right? Someone like you, don’t you ever think to like them back too? That’s when free will comes.
But really, why we have this common question that we girls fall for the complex guy? I have this friend (let’s just name her Pam) that has guy friend (name it as Jack) at their school and they were like really super close that they treat one another as the best guys on Earth. They are both singles and also both ready to commit. Jack brings the best things just for Pam. For an instance, Jack treats Pam so special than any other girls in school. Jack always brings something special just for Pam and Pam consider it as sweet and something more than just being friends. And that is the issue. Cause after some time, Pam finds out that Jack is in love with other girl. And that was like a wakeup call for Pam to wake up and be alert.
(1)   Sometimes, we girls do assume that the guy who’s treating us ‘differently’ likes us back the way we like them, which is totally not an A+ grade. And because we assume that he likes us, we tend to fall in love with them and after learning to love them we find out that he’s not liking you back the way you like them only because you assume that he likes you because of the small sweet things he did to you, It will only be considered a fact if the guy truly and admittedly tells you that he’s into you or he loves you. In short, you misinterpret the things he did for you.
But don’t worry; sometimes it’s not really our fault.  
(2)  Guys sometimes give false hopes. There are guys who treat every other girl special only because they want or it’s in their guts to do that thing without any shame on their body. There are signs that you can tell that this guy is not really serious about you and just giving you nothing.
(3)  Usually guys treat the girl he really likes or he’s into. The fruit of the tree is that, he’s not ready for any commitments. So the thing is, he’s trying to make up with you, tries to hang out with you and have a meaningful conversation but in the end, nothing happens. Nothing runs out the line, only because he’s not ready.
(4)  Then there are guys who’ll court you and will make you the luckiest girl living on planet. But after some days hanging out and making stories of your own, he will just leave you. Why? Some guys are so confuse about everything and anything especially about their selves.  They are not so sure about them being serious on a relationship, or maybe confuse about their status and sadly about his feelings about you. So the tendency is that you fall but he didn’t know if he really loves you that much. 
(5)  Guys of course are not matured enough to handle you or the feelings they have for you. When you declare your love to them, they’ve been thinking about it all day but guys really don’t know what to do. And it may hurt you maybe by the way he’ll tell you but he’s not matured enough to handle that.
(6)  Girls give the wrong impression.
(7) Girls sometimes like the guys they’d usually seen on movies, on videos or on shows. ‘OMG Channing Tatum is so hot on step-up’! Then there’s this guy you really like on school that is good on dancing and you find him cute or whatever. Then you make friends with him and accidentally you fall. That’s the thing. He only lives in fantasies.
(8) Sad but true, but usually we believe in their sweetest lies and simply because that wrong guy usually says the right words for us to believe in them. Woman tend to like smooth talkers who say what they want to hear, to bad 99% of them are sociopathic liars.
(9)  Girls are people. So we decide, we made the wrong choice and we fall and ditch. And that’s how life goes. But we learn from it. We may fall to the wrong guy that we’ll hurt us and broke us apart, but who knows? Because of it we learn from our mistakes and we learn to control our little butterflies on our stomach.
Whole life coaching focuses on your entirety as human being. We have physical, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects that make up our whole being. These aspects are interdependent and require harmony. If you are attracted to imbalanced men, then look into the mirror to see that you are holding imbalance within your being. It may be a belief that you are not worthy of love and care, or that your needs do not matter as a priority. We can only experience what we can receive in a relationship.
We accept the love we think we deserve. (The perks of being a wallflower)

3 comments:

  1. Why Girls Chase After Bad Boys? Hahaha

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    1. They'd like to be haunt by their feelings. You know, it feels great if good girls somehow turned the guy into something other than nothing. :)

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    2. I think based on what you've said, you're just making the articles point. haha

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