A little Tribute to Guys out there: For men tough on the outside, but soft-souled on the inside:

I call all the boys out, yes all. This is your page and I am honoring you studs.

Dear Wonder ball,

                I assume right now you can say that you are alright and have nothing to worry right? I assume you can play video games and practice basketball and laugh it off with nothing to worry and hide, right? I assume that’s YOU on the outside. First, there’s nothing wrong about it. You guys intend to be strong, to be hard and to be tough… on the outside, and I guess that’s your nature. You don’t want someone to see you weaker than anybody else. But mind you, we are all human.

                I know deep down there is someone who can’t hide the truth. When anybody thinks that you are so tough and hard, I know you actually care for people you most loved, you just find it hard to express your feelings. And even if someone thought you actually judge and couldn’t care about anything, I assume you still care for what people might think about you. And even if you ignore or deny the compliments, I know deep down you really appreciates it.

            And even if you intend to feel okay outside after the toxic break-up, chances are, you really thought about it the whole time. You thought that this girl might be the one, and it troubles you deep down. And I tell you, it’s okay to cry. Someone may tell you that you don’t actually care about your relationship, but deep down stud, I know you really care for this girl so much that you are willing to give it all. And after some girl breaks your heart, you acted like okay-doky on the outside, and just trying to ignore the feeling, I know deep inside you cried your heart out because of pain, and I just want to tell you dude, that someone is out there waiting for you, waiting for that kind of love to be shared. So don’t use someone just to patch the hole of pain, wait for it and it will heal and when the right time comes, she is there exactly smiling at you. Don’t give up the being of a man.

                We girls might misunderstand you sometimes, and it’s because of your little nature. Like what John Gray’s book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.

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She’s not a girl anymore but a woman (Tips for guys)

There are quite differences when it comes to Girl and Woman same with the Boy and Man. Well, this ideal for people who finds a partner who wants to settle down, who wants to be matured enough in handling a serious relationship and to luckily find your other half.

Men nowadays, thought that Girls are trending and Woman is scarcity. Usually it is about the time that guys find this ‘scarce’ woman in order also for them to have a partner that can understand them and can act independently and controlled themselves even in unusual ways.

Remember it’s not about the age. Sometimes even younger age of gals act like women.

1.       Girls think that Men understand their thoughts. Women speak words. This one is given. Girls actually feel that when they do think of something their man feels the same way as they thought but actually not. Because girls think differently from men. When women wants to voice out they actually do speak words and not hide it which actually a sign of maturity that men will actually understands.

2.       Girls wear fancy, sexy, revealing clothes. Women look sexy even if they only wear T-shirts. Girls wear fancy things, more accessories and revealing clothes it’s because they are more creative and enjoying the fashion trends in different blogs! But that doesn’t mean that women don’t do that kind of trends, they do only they wear it occasionally. Even if they only wear a simple shirt and pants they still look so damn hot and sexy. –that is a woman, no need some headbands and clips.

3.       Girls are still inside the box. Women are more of outside the box. Girls keep what they believe in what they know is right and wrong. When they simply think how the things matter to them that is their idea. But women actually think of a larger horizon, they not keep the ideas in a one box. They have many options and have larger thoughts of deciding and thinking about things.

4.       Girls watch. Women read. Girls mostly are fund of watching junk tv shows and enjoy for a moment. Women did much more of the reading, getting some ideas and learning’s about the novel. They get more perspectives about this.

5.       Girls are dependent. Women are independent. Financially, emotionally. Girls still need some guidance and of course expect someone for them to provide for their needs. While women are independent of this and you don’t need to pay the cab for them.

6.       Girls talk about matters. Women can stimulate conversations. Girls mostly lack the knowing in global affairs and don’t have much hobbies and interests. Women can handle conversations and can talk about it and will fascinate you still.

7.       Girls eat salad. Women eat whatever they want. Women eat healthily because they respect their bodies. Girls eat healthily to let everyone else know that they are eating healthily. A real woman will sit down and have a burger and fries with you, with no fuss. She knows she can and because she wants to, she will.

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