Friday, October 31, 2014

The A to Z language of Teenagers

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ASL- “netspeak” term used from one person to another to ask them their “age, sex, and location.” It is usually used in a chatting situation with someone you don’t know.   
Bae- Term used to designate ‘Baby’ or ‘Babe’ for teenage couples. Like “Hey Bae what you doin’? Can you come here right now?” Quite they didn’t know that some languages used ‘Bae’ as a term for ‘Poop’. Yeah. ‘POOP’
Checkin out-  Going home or dying.  "That fool is goin' to be checkin' out tonight." To look at someone of the opposite sex in interest.  "Check out that blondie over there.”
Dude - A term to informally address an individual. An exclamation used when something is astonishing or amazingly cool. “Dude you better get up or else…”
Epic fail- If something fails though the work seems so easy. If a fail is a fail in life, then an epic fail is a fail of giant proportions.
Friends with benefits- A description for a type of relationship where friends enjoy casual sex with no strings attached. Purely recreational sex.  ""I saw you coming out of Gina's apartment this morning. Are you guys friends with benefits now?" Yeah Like Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake or Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutcher.
Gangsta- A gangster. One who acts, dresses and talks like a gang member.  "Jesse, what size are those pants? 45? You look like a gansta!"  Yeah “SHE’S DATING THE GANGSTA!”
Homie- Old word (derived from the Hispanic Americans who used "homes" as a label for others) that means friend or companion.  As for, “Yo Guys these are my homies!”
IDK- Acronym for “I don’t Know” Like who cares? Or does it really mean they don’t know. “IDK what are you’re doing”
Juiced- To get drunk or hammered.  "That kid is so juiced.”
K.Dot- Like to assess that “Okay whatever.” Or “Fine, you say so”. To end the conversation.
LMAO- Another acronym used in texting and secret code in reference to “laughing my ass off."  "When Jessica fell in that puddle I LMAO.”
MoMoL- Used specially in Philippines, Acronym for “Make-out, Make-out lang” Like foreplay. Usually used by couples.
Newbie (NooB)- Someone who is new to a particular activity, specifically a game, concept or forum. “Hi guys I’m a newbie here”
OOTD- “Outfit of the day” usually tagged in instagram accounts, twitter or facebook. Used to point out the dress, clothes or outfit that teenager’s wear.
Photo bomb- When a person or object is in a picture accidentally or intentionally and as a result, ruins the photo.
Queen- A homosexual male who is extremely flamboyant and exemplifies many female traits and gestures.  "I've seen some gay people in my life, but that fool is straight up a queen." 
Real Talk- Like saying “No, seriously dude, let’s have a real talk”. The Truth or something very serious. 
Selfie- Famous word used for taking pictures and having a solo picture.
Throw back - A vintage basketball or football jersey. Or a term used in social media accounts to designate a vintage picture, like an old photograph.
Unfriend-  To remove a person from your list of friends or contacts on a social networking site.  
Vogues- Wide wheels, sometimes with white walls.
Wapakels-  Like saying “I don’t give a damn”, “I don’t care” as to say “Whatever”
Xlicious- A term used to describe something that is pleasing to the eye, something that is beuatifal to look at, or someone who is dressed really nice.  "Yo, Henry lookin' xlicious in that suite!" or "That new Lexus is xlicious.
YOLO- An acronym for "You Only Live Once". A term often employed after making an irrational or snap decision.  “This is the best day of my Life #YOLO”
Zoned out/zonen- A term used to refer to the similar actions of daydreaming, unaware of the moment, usually lost in deep thought. The actions of a person who is intoxicated and unable to control their thoughts.  "Leave Matt alone. He's zoned out.

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Wednesday, October 29, 2014

THE TEN BLUNT PHRASES YOU USE WHEN YOU’RE “IN LOVE”


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Falling In Love. Feels like Forever. Feels like unending, infinite, and it lasts forever. It brings us into many things, it made us feel the different emotions we thought we don't have and in the same way it taught us to survive in the world of fantasy and reality. Falling in Love has so many definitions. It has so many words and languages. It has so many feelings.

But here are some phrases/sentences that lovers usually say when things are still on the mountain top.


-We both felt it, I mean… the “sparks”

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-We have these special connections, you know, that kind of wire that connects us.
 
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-With you, forever won't be too long.

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-She’s/He’s the one for me. I know that
 
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-Life is incomplete without you.

-We have both the same likes, like music, he likes Foo Fighters and so do I.We understand each other, we are meant for each other.
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-Since the day I saw him/her I know she’s/he’s the one I’m gonna marry
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-He's/She's my True love, my happy ending.
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-I'm head over heels for you.

-We are perfect for each other

Friday, October 24, 2014

Cheesy Gestures (Based on Movies) that’ll make your partner’s heart melts.

11. The Classic Boom box! (From the Movie ‘Say Anything’)

-          What else can you do once a guy outside your window brings some boom box and let the beat goes on? What else? Doesn’t the beat goes the same as your heart beat? Why not? It’s a classic gesture and teenagers mostly find it ‘ewww’ but what else can you missed with this kind of thing for love? It’s simple as sweet and it designates just how much you love your partner. Additional for the perfect music and that’s it. Plus, why not look up for the hottie John Cusack? WE MELT.

12. Singing in the open field (From the Movie ’10 things I hate about you’)
-          “You’re just too good to be true, can’t take my eyes off you, you feel like heaven to touch all I wanna hold you so much”…. Definitely one of the sweetest gestures of all. I mean how can you not say no to a guy who’s going to sing ‘Can’t take my eyes off you’ and sways and moves like a pro with some help from the band? And how can you not pee in your pants? Oh yeah well, it’s because of the late Heath Ledger and his curly long hair. I Missed that though. Well, it’s a great gesture to do and surprise your partner. You’ll find out that you have an inner sway, moves and a hot voice to sing this to him/her.
    
3.       Draw your Partner! (From the Movie ‘Titanic’)
-          Let your artistic side be known and let your fingers do the magic and touch your partner’s heart. It is so simple but once you’ve done it, it becomes extraordinary. Why? It’s because you draw the most beautiful piece you have. It is the eyes that catch your partner’s soul. You captivated their hearts. And once it is already done, you both look at it and there’s nothing sexier than that.

4.       Do the signature move! (From the Movie ‘Dirty Dancing’ and ‘Crazy, Stupid Love’)
-          Just imagine the signature move that Jennifer Grey and Patrick Swayze did along with the song ‘Time of my Life’, there’s nothing to compare on and it has the most magical moment once the lifting portion is shown. You can do it also, just what Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone did, and part of a challenge for them at first, but the move was also a sign of hotness. Both of you can enjoy this and to tell you, it’s the girl that’ll fly and soar high.


5.       A photography studio (From the Movie ‘A crazy thing called love’)

-          Simple as by doing capturing your partner’s lovely face and keeping his/her smiles and memories. It is by letting your partner knows that you adore them and more than anything else it is by saying they captured your heart just before the camera shots.

6.       Giving a CD Tape/Mix Tape (From the Movie ‘Perks of being a wallflower)
-          It’s like, letting her/him enter another part of your world it is because you let him/her know more about you. You taught your partner how to know you well and part of that is by giving him the tape you listen to and mostly the song you dedicate for him/her. There’s nothing sweeter than that, because just imagine you listen both to the kind of song that your hearts will always remember.

7.       Showing him/her the stars (From the Movie ‘A walk to Remember’)
-          Well not literally speaking, but of course you can show the stars for the love of your life, but most importantly it is by showing him/her the sparks and the light that these stars can give. I bet you get it right?


8.       Build your Dream… House? (From the Movie ‘The Notebook’)

-          If you’re man and you want to give the best for your girl, then the dream house is a good catch. But more of that, it is by building the dreams you both have, either abstract or concrete. 

9.       Take a motor ride after prom (From the Movie ‘The Prom’)
-          After the dancing and all in prom, why not bring your girlfriend into a night ride with your best buddy? Your motor of course not the car, because believe me, your motor is way hotter than your car by that night. Do it while having the song of Shout out Loud’s ‘Impossible’ then after that you’ll have the best prom ever.

10.       Sing to her the Bon Jovi Song (From the Movie ‘A lot like Love’)
-          Dude, it’s your best chance, sing ‘I’ll be there for you’ in your sweetest voice and bring your best guitar. Knock and surprise your baby with this kind of hot love song that for sure will melt her heart. Remember that Bon Jovi never gets out of line. He always rock.

Monday, October 20, 2014

YOU’RE FORGIVEN. I’M SORRY AM I FORGIVEN?


This page is all yours. Yes all yours. Because this page is for the people I hated, for the people I hurt, for the people I almost forgotten because of what I did to them or what they did to me. You may not know how you affect other people lives, but yes, we are all part of this cycle. It is the stupid cycle of affection. Every action has an effect to other people—bad or good. We may think it is okay with them and its okay to play jokes on them, but we didn’t know exactly what they think INSIDE. So right here, before it’s too late I am going to forgive you, now let me ask you, are you ready to forgive me?
First, to the people I hurt, consciously or not.
Some people I know I hurt, some people I don’t. But yeah that’s the thing, I know I hurt other people’s feeling, but sometimes I didn’t quite know I already step on their lane. So here is it, I AM SORRY.
 (1)To the girl sis I had when I was still coping with the new vibes of my life. Girl, you help me a lot, you teach me many things I wouldn’t forget especially the sweet things you did. You made our friendship more colorful than what you may think. I am glad that I met someone like you. You are really strong and a tough girl, but deep inside you’re my sister. I miss our endless talks, our laughs, our stupid jokes. I miss you. I miss hanging out with you. I miss your stories. I miss you. Don’t ever think that I forgot you as my friend, don’t ever think that. Cause honestly, I miss you so much. If you ever think that I left you behind, I am sorry my friend. I am willing to be your other sister again. I love you and I Miss you.
(2)To my so called ‘baby sister’. Oh my gosh what went wrong? Why we suddenly stop talking and chatting or even texting? Thank you honey for sharing your stories and even your secretes to me. I’m sorry if I blurted some of them. But honestly I keep my pace on with that. I miss talking with you. I miss the talks about our love lives, about our cute endearments. I miss your honest advice. I may be older than you, but you’re way too cooler than me. I’m sorry if you felt I treated our friendship like a trash. Don’t ever think about that. I love you and I Miss you.
(3) To my Grade 5-6 Bestfriend. Hey! How are you? I hope you’re doing fine. I miss you sweet girl. I miss our girl talks; I miss the crazy things we did. I miss hanging out with you, because you’re the girl that cherishes the friendship the most. I’m sorry if you didn’t feel that you’re important to me. I really appreciate and I love when you visit into our house and we have a little chit chat. Some part of my happy life are because of you darling. I miss you please forgive me if I didn’t cope up with our friendship. I love you and I miss you.
(4) For some people who’ve I hurt that I didn’t know. Well, sorry, really. I didn’t mean it and I want to have a good pact with you. I’m sorry if I offended you, if I hurt you physically or emotionally. I’M REALLY SORRY. AM I FORGIVEN?

Lastly, to the people who broke my heart, my soul.
There’s good news for you. You’re forgiven.
(1)    To the boy bestfriend I trusted so much but chose to break my trust, okay I hate you for that. REALLY. I hate you so much that I bring those bad feelings till now. I can’t even imagine why you have to do those things to a girl who trusted you so much and treated you like a brother. Honestly, you’re such a jerk. But what came up to me is that, what am I gonna do with those bag full of bad shit feelings about you? I can’t carry them anymore. I am too tired to feel the hatred for you. So I am giving it away now. I am willing to forgive you. I love myself and I am giving myself a treat— a chance of freedom.

(2)    To my first love. Thank you. Just be happy. It’s not your fault anyway. Though, you somehow made me feel like a trash. But again thank you, you don’t know how I am grateful right now. I am much more complete. Keep safe. Let’s be happy! You’re forgiven.


(3)    For people who’ve hurt me, even for a little span of time, for breaking my heart, for wanting me to cry, for all the stupid gossips you made just to ruin me, for all the bad things you did, for all the judgments you assure is right about me, I hate you. But I chose to forgive you. I don’t want to feel the bad things right now. Because it is happy to live life without so much hatred in your heart.

So I am giving you the question of a lifetime, a one chance of becoming happy.
Are you okay with keeping those shits? Or can you exactly say sorry and forgive?

Think about it.

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Why men in 20’s don’t settle down.

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Men, just like women have so many issues in their life. Women speak out for that, but as for men, as defining them to be the powerful, strong, confident guy never speaks out for it. But to tell you the truth, they just keep it inside. So why does men sometimes lead to a break up after three months or two months of relationship? Why does it happen all over again? And it feels like they are finding something or maybe someone that they can’t find?
Well, some of the guys maybe don’t feel like turning their relationships into the next level or maybe they don’t need a girl to complete them— just for now.
But some other dudes there got a thing for girls, got an eye for a girl, got a heart for a girl but still some things pre-occupied their mind and let them to a thought that there is something lacking about them.
So what it is?
(1)    Friends
-Guys sometimes feels fine and are more attentive to their ‘happy times’ and ‘guy thingy’ they thought about more happiness, more adventures, and more stories to come out because of their friends that sometimes they forget about their romantic relationship. It is also the why some guys don’t settle down at 20’s because they thought of lacking time for his partner or for his friends, well either of the two when he’s not already ready he’ll just choose the latter one.

(2)    Career
-Well it is so obvious, that some professional and workaholic guys focus on their career and what more can bring our of this things. They look over for more opportunities in life and they enjoy mostly the time they spend for just working. Seems so impossible but some guys do that. So yeah, guys who are not ready to settle down mainly concerns more about their work and priorities in life that they somehow forget the love they once had.

(3)    Finding what path to choose
- It just mainly the belief of ‘finding their selves’, finding their identity’. It seems a phrase full of shit, but of course when you still find yourself, when you still want to learn more about you, you focus on yourself, you are minding your own. When this guys had a relationship in turns out that it didn’t work that well, it’s because they are unsure of some things and somehow they didn’t know where to start.

(4)    Immaturity and Emotionally unprepared
- Another thing is that some guys are still on the ‘boy toy thing’ nothing serious, nothing more. Just ready to play video games and collect characters of some superheroes and villains on his favorite magazine. Do you remember the movie ’40 year old virgin’? Steve Carell played a man who’s still a virgin, but to tell you it’s just that he’s not that ready and still immature about accepting things as a man and by the way part of it was his action figures.

(5)    Finding Mrs. Right

-Cheesy as it may sounds, but yeah it is somehow the reason why we go and push so hard on relationships but didn’t turn out well. Then we get tired of it and we choose to stop for some time. Then it’s just the thought of ‘he’s still looking for the right women’. And when he surely does, when that time comes, somehow those things that make him unprepared and unready will just turn upside down.