Men, just like women have so many issues in their life. Women
speak out for that, but as for men, as defining them to be the powerful,
strong, confident guy never speaks out for it. But to tell you the truth, they
just keep it inside. So why does men sometimes lead to a break up after three
months or two months of relationship? Why does it happen all over again? And it
feels like they are finding something or maybe someone that they can’t find?
Well, some of the guys maybe don’t feel like turning their
relationships into the next level or maybe they don’t need a girl to complete
them— just for now.
But some other dudes there got a thing for girls, got an eye
for a girl, got a heart for a girl but still some things pre-occupied their
mind and let them to a thought that there is something lacking about them.
So what it is?
(1)
Friends
-Guys sometimes feels fine and are more attentive
to their ‘happy times’ and ‘guy thingy’ they thought about more happiness, more
adventures, and more stories to come out because of their friends that
sometimes they forget about their romantic relationship. It is also the why
some guys don’t settle down at 20’s because they thought of lacking time for
his partner or for his friends, well either of the two when he’s not already
ready he’ll just choose the latter one.
(2)
Career
-Well it is so obvious, that some
professional and workaholic guys focus on their career and what more can bring
our of this things. They look over for more opportunities in life and they
enjoy mostly the time they spend for just working. Seems so impossible but some
guys do that. So yeah, guys who are not ready to settle down mainly concerns
more about their work and priorities in life that they somehow forget the love
they once had.
(3)
Finding what path to choose
- It just mainly the belief of ‘finding
their selves’, finding their identity’. It seems a phrase full of shit, but of course
when you still find yourself, when you still want to learn more about you, you focus
on yourself, you are minding your own. When this guys had a relationship in
turns out that it didn’t work that well, it’s because they are unsure of some
things and somehow they didn’t know where to start.
(4)
Immaturity and Emotionally unprepared
- Another thing is that some guys are still
on the ‘boy toy thing’ nothing serious, nothing more. Just ready to play video
games and collect characters of some superheroes and villains on his favorite
magazine. Do you remember the movie ’40 year old virgin’? Steve Carell played a
man who’s still a virgin, but to tell you it’s just that he’s not that ready
and still immature about accepting things as a man and by the way part of it
was his action figures.
(5)
Finding Mrs. Right
-Cheesy as it may sounds, but yeah it is
somehow the reason why we go and push so hard on relationships but didn’t turn
out well. Then we get tired of it and we choose to stop for some time. Then it’s
just the thought of ‘he’s still looking for the right women’. And when he
surely does, when that time comes, somehow those things that make him
unprepared and unready will just turn upside down.
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