Two letters for my Past and Future... Dear 2014

Dear 2014,

                First, I would like to congratulate myself for surviving this year of both happiness and hardships. I think I did a lot of effort for this year to make it great, but still I manage to keep my feet on the track. I can’t sum-up how happy I am because another year would come— my future. And for you, my past, I also would like to congratulate you. You made me strong and better. I think what I learned from you is to be the lady I should be. This year, I did a lot of improvements in myself, especially about being ‘artsy’. I can’t imagine I have this kind of thing for crafts. Then there comes my “unrequited” love, thanks by the way for reminding me that I have a heart, I enjoy a lot. I enjoy the moments, especially the idea that I can fall in love. Nonetheless, it didn’t work the way we both wanted, but I have a special feeling for this kind of event in my life, because finally I have the answers in my hands. I didn’t have to question myself over and over again why would this have to end, because you showed me… dear 2014 that I am a strong woman and I can overcome this kind of situation in my life.

I never been a perfect friend, I still can’t manage all the friends I have and that is because I’m still finding myself to “fit” in. We all know that there are different kinds of friends… they can be your favorite, they can be your worst frenemy or they can be your just temporary companion, but nonetheless, there are people that help me through out of finding some happiness, adventures and a bit of luck in all times of struggles.

 I have a hard time of finding myself in this year, it’s more of a lost and found search, and there is just one piece of my soul that is missing and hopefully, this coming year… I will found what I’ve been looking for. I thank you my past for this wonderful year, you showed me both life and death.

Dear 2015,

                My dear! I would like to welcome you! I would like to kiss and hug you! This is a new day! A new way to start a life in a better way! To you my Future, let’s get the adventure starts! I just hope that this year, would be the year for me to love myself more, to appreciate the people that really loves me and truly cares for me. I want to give them my energy because they truly believes in me and not to waste my vibes to non-sense people. Oh please… Haters gonna hate!

Please let me meet the people I wanted and the people who wanted me back. Let me fill the spaces in my life dear… let me have some people who can bring me the goodness in life, the ones who can bring me some cheers! And for me to give others the kind of happiness they also wanted. I wanted to help. I wanted to be a part of someone’s life and not just to exist. Let me find myself and also let the roads find me.

Let my family stick together through thick and thin, let me find my true friends and to cherish them with all my heart. Please let this be the year for all the unfinished business to end and leave all the bad past behind and more of moving forward. Let this be the year for some learnings in life… for some endless road trips plus a good music to join the beat on. Let this be the year for happier lifestyle and a happy soul. To be more free and hug the possibilities! Let this be a country that is full of hope and chances, wishing that the next leader would be the one who’ll save each one of his people.

This 2015, Like what the song says “Shoot me down… but I won’t fall… I am… *insert name*”

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The 50 Sensational Things in the Year-2014 (Sum-up The Trending issues!)

-Ebola Outbreak

Misunderstanding EBOLA

Thinking you have EBOLA

-Instagram users be like

Capture the food before eating

Let me take a SELFIE!

-The Fault in our Stars (Our little infinities)

-Taking online quizzes

Who is your celebrity twin?

What Hunger Games Character are you?

-All about that Bass

- Getting physically fit

Because a lot of Celebs are making their way having abs!

Diet! Salads only please

-Using so Many hashtags! (#blog #blogger #united #pretty #writer #dreams #whatever)

-The No filter policy

-So many weddings and engagements! (and you keep asking yourself why not me?)

-Singing “Stay with me”- Sam Smith

-Hating Kendall Jenner.

-Having ideas on some bloggers in instagram and re-doing it.

-The #TBT (show some love with the gap teeth)

-Visiting many food resto or coffee shops and put it in a blog or IG

-Taylor Swift’s Shake it off booty

- Miriam Defensor’s “Stupid is Forever” book

-Guardians of the Galaxy and realizing how hot Chris Pratt is.

-Not believing on the #forever, you’re more of believing #walangforever

-Pork Barrel and all the money scams

-The Ice bucket challenge

-Homies not approving Iggy’s rap. “Why the hell a white’s rapping?” (Iggy Azalea)

-Kim Kardashian’s big booty photo

- Using Facebook as your daily DIARY!!

- Wearing tops and high waist jeans

-The never let go “FROZEN” film. Please, let go of it.

- #DongYan wedding

- DIY crafts

-The Victoria’s Secret Fashion show!

-TINDER

- Being racist

- Believing you’re a vegan

- Going to Concerts

- Miley Cyrus.

-Death of Robin Williams

-Typhoon Ruby

-Vintage stores

- Reading so many fiction books

-Jeje’s still invading the social media

- Having eyeliner wings

-Breaking up with/exposing cheating partner on viral YouTube videos.

-She’s dating the Gangster

- The Wattpad Outbreak

- Having the grunge look

-Travelling around the Globe

- Reading many advices or tips of how to look like your favorite celebrity actress

- Annoyed cause you're single

-Vhong Navarro vs. Cedric Lee

-Scandals

-One direction concert here in PHL

-Fashion Trends

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I’m not a Girl not yet a Woman... Dear Britney Spears

Dear Britney Spears,

Your song really fits my in-“between” problem. I’m totally into your song. And I wonder why these words came up. Why? Did you also write this as for realizing some changes in you? Physically? Mentally? Emotionally? Cause honestly if you do, then we have the same track baby. It started when I feel lonely, yes lonely for most of the times. I don’t know but sometimes I just started to think things in a different way and surprisingly it made me feel lonely. When I was a girl I don’t give a damn if my skirt was too short, if my hair doesn’t flow perfectly, if my body was sexy or not. I just ate a lot of junk and store it in my trunk. I don’t care about the world. I just wanna play and watch endless Disney films. It made me happy you know. But this time it’s totally different. I happen to know the word “metamorphosis”. Yes, just like a cockroach (eggs) turns into an adult stage. I am much more different now. I know I have to take some precautions because now, I am not a Girl. I care about more of my looks now. I care too much it hurts my head. I care about the prom, about what facial cream to use, about what dress to choose, about the cool guy in school, about my friends, about my parents adding rule no.67 “curfew hours”. I get so lonely about it sometimes. Because I’m not used to it but fortunately I’m part of it. It’s inborn. It’s destined to every person—to constantly change. This is it! It’s a mind game. I am not used to it. I am not ready for the choices, the judgements, the decisions, and the people and especially about myself. I am getting to know more about myself Britney and I am afraid I am concern with your chosen lyrics in your song “Life doesn’t always go my way”. What’s bugging me right now, is actually of becoming a Woman. Will I ever be a good mom? Will I ever got a stable job and support myself? Will I ever meet the right person to be with? Or will I just mess the whole things up? Sometimes I get too sad and believe it or not I judge people… mostly about young kids. Because now that I am a Lady, I am not used to seeing young couples kissing in PUBLIC places, I mean really KISS, I get annoyed by looking at those pictures showing some of her “flesh” and I am not an old maid to act like this. It’s just that I am Lady now. I know in myself that I am starting to grow—deeply. I started to see things differently and more seriously. I work hard now, I left the play stage. But thinking about it, I am just a Lady, Not a girl… but also not a Woman. My stage now is heading me for a new adventure right? For new learning’s in life and maybe somehow prepare me for the next stage right? Well maybe. It is possible. So “There is no need to protect me. It's time that I learn to face up to this on my own. I've seen so much more than you know now, So don't tell me to shut my eyes”. Maybe I just need some understanding right now, cause honestly I am quite not sure about it either. “All I need is love a moment that’s enough….”

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Letter to the guy who I almost Love

To my almost boyfriend;

                Wow, I would just like to tell you that I will not sugar coat everything about us. I will strictly come to the point. Why I even wrote this letter? Because I am scared, scared of being just your almost lover. Simple as that but harder to swallow. I like you. I like you since when you started talking to me about you, about your football games, about how you like your steak rare, about how your granny loves you and how you hate your dad. We got along together, we click like heels, we groove like a dancer. I like how you smile, how you treated me like a princess, like how say my name “Olive”, like how you get jealous so easily. I am not an easy catch and I can say that you win my heart, you got me, and you did your best to make me feel comfortable about us. I can’t blame you; you’re not hard as I thought. You got my wings fly. I am not expecting anything. But why you have to tell me not to talk to any boys in school? Especially Taylor? Why am I not suppose to eat alone in lunch without you? Why we have to hang out in weekends? I can’t find the answers because you never tell me.  Sooner or later I find myself falling so hard with your handsome face, I can’t resist the fact that I am head over heels with you. I love the whole you. But you just made me feel like a trash. Suddenly you’re too sweet but most of the time you ignore me. I can’t think hard enough. I don’t know the answers. Are you just using me to fill your dull moments? Or am I just feeling the wrong emotions for you? Is it because for you I am just a friend? Ouch. If so, then be honest with me sweety. I don’t want games especially in the name of love. I want the honest answers about this. Can you? Can you just honestly talk to me straightly?

Can you somehow not treat me your almost darling?

                                                                                                         Love, Olive (An almost love letter)

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WHY DO WE STAY ON INTOXICATING RELATIONSHIPS? LEAVE OR STAY?

People create the illusion of love. Why do we need to love? Why someone has to love? Is it really needed? For some quite reasons, YES, it is necessary. Just imagine why. You wouldn’t work so hard on that stupid office not if your love one’s depends on you. You wouldn’t study so hard on those stupid textbooks not if your mom whom you love wants you to learn and grow. You wouldn’t eat those damn green veggies not if you love yourself and your body.

Same things as here. Why do people stay on relationship that is full of sick lame gestures and is intoxicating? It is like you’ve eaten a lot and you’re already full but still you need to eat the remaining dish. Too much and you’re already going to vomit.

Too much is bad. Too much will make you feel like drowning.

But why do people have this power to swallow everything and just say “its okay” even though it’s not anymore?

We give our partner’s a chance- The reason why you keep on staying even though your heart doesn’t feel so happy is that you don’t lose the chance to hope that someday he’ll/she’ll change, for the better, for the both of you to be happy. You let yourself thinking that “I love him/her so I’ll wait” you wait and you wait. You stay because you know he’s/she’s better than that, he still can make you happy. She still can understand you.  At some point it isn’t bad, it can be three things (1) You love him/her so much that you are willing to wait (2) You’re just afraid to admit to yourself that there’s no turning back, that you made a mistake of choosing, of deciding (3) Your ego.

You get suddenly deaf by hearing the word ‘Alone’- Nobody wants to be alone. No one. If you want to be ALONE for the rest of your life then you better get your packs on and live on MARS. We all need someone, somebody to lean on, to give on, and to receive on. “No man is an island”. So just by thinking that you leave your partner, you became suddenly panic about the world “ALONE”, you can’t be alone right? You are afraid that after breaking up with your partner, you ended being alone. You suck on dates; you don’t know the right thing to do. You suddenly feel new about the dating cycle. But will you still stay even if you keep crying at night?

You’re afraid to leave “The one”- This is wrong, love isn’t about being assured, being assured that you should always have someone, assured that you will get home bringing something and nothing. But love is a game you see? You have to make a bet. How you’ll know if he’s the one or she’s the one if you’re not trying to make a chance of a lifetime to bet?

You thought about not moving at all- We are human and so we are not safe of anything, sooner or later we’ll all get hurt—by someone— strangers or even the love of your life. The thing is why you should keep on staying on a relationship that’s teaching you to move on SLOWLY and PAINFULLY? It is just the dead end, you have to MOVE ON.

There are two things either you stay or leave.

Stay- Okay, give them a chance, see what will happen, see if he’s/she’s keeping up. See if you can no longer take the pain, the hurt, see if you can still love the same person everyday but still keeps on hurting you, without him knowing it.

Leave- Take a gamble, decide whether to love yourself above all and choose to be happy. To choose to meet new friends and decide to achieve your pasts dreams, to live by yourself, to explore and learn more things about you, to take a rest and take everything slowly and finally to gamble again for falling in love.

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Boost up your free spirited soul! (The Things you need to do in your 20 something)

One friend said to me that we didn’t live just to exist here on Earth nor live just to live, we somehow given this wonderful gift of Life, because we people doesn’t just want to sprout in this land of mass. We want to truly act on exist.

We want to give, to receive something, to love, to smile, to hug, to fear of something, to get mad, to shine. Generation nowadays, especially teenagers has a larger scope of fulfilling things beyond every line. We tend to be very imaginative and so goal oriented, but that’s not a bad thing anyway. People now are so full of ideas and so full of dreams and that’s when every news, every things has a right for fame.  This list doesn’t account that you should do it by the time you just turned 20, or you’re not 20 by this time, or your age is just not the age you wanted at this moment. Well some of the things listed here don’t need you to be twenty, you can do it even if you’re sixteen, but however, some things need a lot of dedication and hard work. By means of that, is like working to get some bills for your little adventures or trip. Nonetheless, I just did it because people in twenties are in line AFTER teenage days and BEFORE maturity days come. It’s just the matter on how you’ll do it and how you’ll handle it.

I can or YOU can do a hundred list of things do to, but for now let me just take you into the first step of guiding your life by not just existing here. You better WERK it. You better.

1.       Have a healthy exercise- You’re not getting any younger, sooner or later you’ll be out of the calendar dates, (sorry but true) and that means that we are aging. Don’t worry Pal, we are all aging, and it’s a wonderful thing because you know you’re normal. But aging is not an easy thing, your body becomes weaker and somehow some of the things you mostly do when you’re young are a big NO NO when you’re already weak. So before it could happen, why not starting from now, “I’ll start jogging around the village”, “I’ll kick some balls and do some exhibitions”, “I’ll play badminton”. It is a hard task from the start, but later on you’ll get addicted into it and yeah you’ll realize it’s a fun way. You’re not just having fun and you’re not just a healthy young mankind but you can also have bond with your friends or family.

2.       Stay out of your comfort zone- Stay out of bed and stop being so cozy all the time. The sun is coming and the rain is pouring downtown! Celebrate it with open arms! Watch for a movie tonight? Have a date? How about shopping? Watch live concerts? Or basketball plays? YOU CAN DO IT.

3.       Food hunting- You’ll never get tired of this one, because nowadays, there’s so many resto, bar, coffee shops looking for you my friend! Why not bring the Gals and the Guys and have some early breakfasts or a lunch time or a late dinner or just a one great café time? Not just the foods in front of you will make your tummy happy but the unending stories with your friends will do the best.

4.       Learn some new things!- Learn a new dance routine, a new sport or learn to paint. Do the things you didn’t know from the start and be amaze that you can do it anyhow! It is a fun thing for you to know more about yourself!

5.       Now’s your time to choose your favorite author-  Miss that book last month? Wondering why The Fault in our stars is so popular and you’re still sticking to the old fantasy book? Move your ass out and check on the book store so you can enjoy and just relax at your home base.

6.       Frame-up!- Base on my experience, I really do have fun taking photos of nature, buildings, my outfit of the day and sharing my adventures online! And you know what I’m talking about! Yes, Instagram it! Or better yet, HAVE YOUR OWN BLOG!

7.       Pursue your frustrated dreams- Want to paint? Dance? Sing? You can do it. Now you’re in the edge of taking risks and betting your adventures, now’s the time to learn the things you want for a long time ago! Take a step and later on when you already know what to do, you just see yourself smiling.

8.       Learn to drive/Overdrive- Remember you’re not the old dude who can’t enjoy just being yourself or can’t do anything without friends. You’re in the line of happiness and fulfill your heart with so much fun! Bring your car and do the road trip! Whether all by yourself or with friends! The important thing is that you play the perfect music so that you’re energy can boost up.

9.       Have a haircut!- Bored of your old look? Or the everyday all year round face of the day? Well have a risk! Do change your haircut and if doesn’t work out, well at least it isn’t permanent and you’ll have something to laugh about! Plus you can still change it.

10.   Sizzling kitchen- Don’t know anything about cooking or baking? Then grab some cook book and make the kitchen heat up (well not literally), or you can hang out with your best bud or even your mom!

11.   Travel the WORLD!- Tell you what, it is the best feeling to travel and see the beautiful scenes, people, culture with your own two eyes! You’ll just imagine how beautiful the world is.

12.   Do sport- Girls and Guys can both learn this stuff, aside from the healthy benefits it can give to you, you’ll just find yourself enjoying seeing that beautiful body in front of the mirror and yes it is sweeter because you did a great job keeping that hard work and determination up!

13.   Connect with your family- There is no such thing as perfect, same with the relationship you had your family. But now’s your time to reconnect with them and share your adventures with them! Have a wonderful night with them, do the things you planned last time but didn’t made it, bond with them and have a wonderful day with the people who won’t left you no matter what.

14.   Learn a new language-  A new lesson to learn!

15.   Volunteer-  With all the blessings you have in your hands, why not give back? Help some charities, teach the street children to read and write, donate blood, volunteer— with all your heart and willingness!

16.   Win an award- Give yourself a shot and win that thing over! It will guarantee yourself for obtaining and striving hard for that thing.

17.   Save some bills- Everybody’s need to save some money, because bills are just like “easy come, easy go” buddy. So save some and when you feel like buying some new clothes, at least you have something to get into your pocket.

18.   Write for yourself- Click this site Futureme.org because…. Just because! It is so amazing to talk to yourself and write down all the dreams, the goals, to comments you have in your life. Set the date for about 5 or 10 years later and after some years, realizing you write a letter for yourself is such an amazing feeling and at the same time a fun one to enjoy.

19.   Go to camping- Meet new friends and enjoy your daily tasks!

20.   Do scuba diving/Surf the ocean- Refresh, rewind, aaaaand just do the dance along with the sea creatures while swaying with that fresh water touching your skin! REFRESH!

21.   Meet your superstar- Been longing to see your favorite actor? Actress? Singer? Model? Then do some stalking and meet them! but not the creepy dude following them ALWAYS. Just have some good updates about their shoots, concerts, mall tour and see them on sight!

22.   Fall in Love- Yes, my friend. If you already have someone to lean on then you’re good, but if you still waking with yesterdays and the past, please my friend, now’s the time to really move on and part of it is by knowing something new, SOMEONE new, meet some friends and fall in love. But don’t get too hurry to just fall without feeling. I bet you don’t want to happen the same old story right? So just SLOW DOWN, keep your pace on and just feel the moment.

23.   DO YOUR OWN BUCKET LIST- This is your life, you control it. So no matter what people say, if it makes you happy, if this thing makes you feel human then check that box on the things you want to do written on your bucket list!

HAVE A HAPPY LIFE MY FRIEND.

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The A to Z language of Teenagers

ASL- “netspeak” term used from one person to another to ask them their “age, sex, and location.” It is usually used in a chatting situation with someone you don’t know.   

Bae- Term used to designate ‘Baby’ or ‘Babe’ for teenage couples. Like “Hey Bae what you doin’? Can you come here right now?” Quite they didn’t know that some languages used ‘Bae’ as a term for ‘Poop’. Yeah. ‘POOP’

Checkin out-  Going home or dying.  "That fool is goin' to be checkin' out tonight." To look at someone of the opposite sex in interest.  "Check out that blondie over there.”

Dude - A term to informally address an individual. An exclamation used when something is astonishing or amazingly cool. “Dude you better get up or else…”

Epic fail- If something fails though the work seems so easy. If a fail is a fail in life, then an epic fail is a fail of giant proportions.

Friends with benefits- A description for a type of relationship where friends enjoy casual sex with no strings attached. Purely recreational sex.  ""I saw you coming out of Gina's apartment this morning. Are you guys friends with benefits now?" Yeah Like Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake or Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutcher.

Gangsta- A gangster. One who acts, dresses and talks like a gang member.  "Jesse, what size are those pants? 45? You look like a gansta!"  Yeah “SHE’S DATING THE GANGSTA!”

Homie- Old word (derived from the Hispanic Americans who used "homes" as a label for others) that means friend or companion.  As for, “Yo Guys these are my homies!”

IDK- Acronym for “I don’t Know” Like who cares? Or does it really mean they don’t know. “IDK what are you’re doing”

Juiced- To get drunk or hammered.  "That kid is so juiced.”

K.Dot- Like to assess that “Okay whatever.” Or “Fine, you say so”. To end the conversation.

LMAO- Another acronym used in texting and secret code in reference to “laughing my ass off."  "When Jessica fell in that puddle I LMAO.”

MoMoL- Used specially in Philippines, Acronym for “Make-out, Make-out lang” Like foreplay. Usually used by couples.

Newbie (NooB)- Someone who is new to a particular activity, specifically a game, concept or forum. “Hi guys I’m a newbie here”

OOTD- “Outfit of the day” usually tagged in instagram accounts, twitter or facebook. Used to point out the dress, clothes or outfit that teenager’s wear.

Photo bomb- When a person or object is in a picture accidentally or intentionally and as a result, ruins the photo.

Queen- A homosexual male who is extremely flamboyant and exemplifies many female traits and gestures.  "I've seen some gay people in my life, but that fool is straight up a queen." 

Real Talk- Like saying “No, seriously dude, let’s have a real talk”. The Truth or something very serious. 

Selfie- Famous word used for taking pictures and having a solo picture.

Throw back - A vintage basketball or football jersey. Or a term used in social media accounts to designate a vintage picture, like an old photograph.

Unfriend-  To remove a person from your list of friends or contacts on a social networking site.  

Vogues- Wide wheels, sometimes with white walls.

Wapakels-  Like saying “I don’t give a damn”, “I don’t care” as to say “Whatever”

Xlicious- A term used to describe something that is pleasing to the eye, something that is beuatifal to look at, or someone who is dressed really nice.  "Yo, Henry lookin' xlicious in that suite!" or "That new Lexus is xlicious.

YOLO- An acronym for "You Only Live Once". A term often employed after making an irrational or snap decision.  “This is the best day of my Life #YOLO”

Zoned out/zonen- A term used to refer to the similar actions of daydreaming, unaware of the moment, usually lost in deep thought. The actions of a person who is intoxicated and unable to control their thoughts.  "Leave Matt alone. He's zoned out.

For more Slang Languages of Teenagers:

http://www.thesource4ym.com/SlangDictionary/SlangDictionary.aspx

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THE TEN BLUNT PHRASES YOU USE WHEN YOU’RE “IN LOVE”

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Falling In Love. Feels like Forever. Feels like unending, infinite, and it lasts forever. It brings us into many things, it made us feel the different emotions we thought we don't have and in the same way it taught us to survive in the world of fantasy and reality. Falling in Love has so many definitions. It has so many words and languages. It has so many feelings.

But here are some phrases/sentences that lovers usually say when things are still on the mountain top.


-We both felt it, I mean… the “sparks”

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-We have these special connections, you know, that kind of wire that connects us.

 

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-With you, forever won't be too long.

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-She’s/He’s the one for me. I know that

 

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-Life is incomplete without you.

-We have both the same likes, like music, he likes Foo Fighters and so do I.We understand each other, we are meant for each other.

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-Since the day I saw him/her I know she’s/he’s the one I’m gonna marry

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-He's/She's my True love, my happy ending.

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-I'm head over heels for you.

-We are perfect for each other

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Cheesy Gestures (Based on Movies) that’ll make your partner’s heart melts.

11. The Classic Boom box! (From the Movie ‘Say Anything’)

-          What else can you do once a guy outside your window brings some boom box and let the beat goes on? What else? Doesn’t the beat goes the same as your heart beat? Why not? It’s a classic gesture and teenagers mostly find it ‘ewww’ but what else can you missed with this kind of thing for love? It’s simple as sweet and it designates just how much you love your partner. Additional for the perfect music and that’s it. Plus, why not look up for the hottie John Cusack? WE MELT.

12. Singing in the open field (From the Movie ’10 things I hate about you’)

-          “You’re just too good to be true, can’t take my eyes off you, you feel like heaven to touch all I wanna hold you so much”…. Definitely one of the sweetest gestures of all. I mean how can you not say no to a guy who’s going to sing ‘Can’t take my eyes off you’ and sways and moves like a pro with some help from the band? And how can you not pee in your pants? Oh yeah well, it’s because of the late Heath Ledger and his curly long hair. I Missed that though. Well, it’s a great gesture to do and surprise your partner. You’ll find out that you have an inner sway, moves and a hot voice to sing this to him/her.

    

3.       Draw your Partner! (From the Movie ‘Titanic’)

-          Let your artistic side be known and let your fingers do the magic and touch your partner’s heart. It is so simple but once you’ve done it, it becomes extraordinary. Why? It’s because you draw the most beautiful piece you have. It is the eyes that catch your partner’s soul. You captivated their hearts. And once it is already done, you both look at it and there’s nothing sexier than that.

4.       Do the signature move! (From the Movie ‘Dirty Dancing’ and ‘Crazy, Stupid Love’)

-          Just imagine the signature move that Jennifer Grey and Patrick Swayze did along with the song ‘Time of my Life’, there’s nothing to compare on and it has the most magical moment once the lifting portion is shown. You can do it also, just what Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone did, and part of a challenge for them at first, but the move was also a sign of hotness. Both of you can enjoy this and to tell you, it’s the girl that’ll fly and soar high.

5.       A photography studio (From the Movie ‘A crazy thing called love’)

-          Simple as by doing capturing your partner’s lovely face and keeping his/her smiles and memories. It is by letting your partner knows that you adore them and more than anything else it is by saying they captured your heart just before the camera shots.

6.       Giving a CD Tape/Mix Tape (From the Movie ‘Perks of being a wallflower)

-          It’s like, letting her/him enter another part of your world it is because you let him/her know more about you. You taught your partner how to know you well and part of that is by giving him the tape you listen to and mostly the song you dedicate for him/her. There’s nothing sweeter than that, because just imagine you listen both to the kind of song that your hearts will always remember.

7.       Showing him/her the stars (From the Movie ‘A walk to Remember’)

-          Well not literally speaking, but of course you can show the stars for the love of your life, but most importantly it is by showing him/her the sparks and the light that these stars can give. I bet you get it right?

8.       Build your Dream… House? (From the Movie ‘The Notebook’)

-          If you’re man and you want to give the best for your girl, then the dream house is a good catch. But more of that, it is by building the dreams you both have, either abstract or concrete. 

9.       Take a motor ride after prom (From the Movie ‘The Prom’)

-          After the dancing and all in prom, why not bring your girlfriend into a night ride with your best buddy? Your motor of course not the car, because believe me, your motor is way hotter than your car by that night. Do it while having the song of Shout out Loud’s ‘Impossible’ then after that you’ll have the best prom ever.

10.       Sing to her the Bon Jovi Song (From the Movie ‘A lot like Love’)

-          Dude, it’s your best chance, sing ‘I’ll be there for you’ in your sweetest voice and bring your best guitar. Knock and surprise your baby with this kind of hot love song that for sure will melt her heart. Remember that Bon Jovi never gets out of line. He always rock.

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YOU’RE FORGIVEN. I’M SORRY AM I FORGIVEN?

This page is all yours. Yes all yours. Because this page is for the people I hated, for the people I hurt, for the people I almost forgotten because of what I did to them or what they did to me. You may not know how you affect other people lives, but yes, we are all part of this cycle. It is the stupid cycle of affection. Every action has an effect to other people—bad or good. We may think it is okay with them and its okay to play jokes on them, but we didn’t know exactly what they think INSIDE. So right here, before it’s too late I am going to forgive you, now let me ask you, are you ready to forgive me?

First, to the people I hurt, consciously or not.

Some people I know I hurt, some people I don’t. But yeah that’s the thing, I know I hurt other people’s feeling, but sometimes I didn’t quite know I already step on their lane. So here is it, I AM SORRY.

 (1)To the girl sis I had when I was still coping with the new vibes of my life. Girl, you help me a lot, you teach me many things I wouldn’t forget especially the sweet things you did. You made our friendship more colorful than what you may think. I am glad that I met someone like you. You are really strong and a tough girl, but deep inside you’re my sister. I miss our endless talks, our laughs, our stupid jokes. I miss you. I miss hanging out with you. I miss your stories. I miss you. Don’t ever think that I forgot you as my friend, don’t ever think that. Cause honestly, I miss you so much. If you ever think that I left you behind, I am sorry my friend. I am willing to be your other sister again. I love you and I Miss you.

(2)To my so called ‘baby sister’. Oh my gosh what went wrong? Why we suddenly stop talking and chatting or even texting? Thank you honey for sharing your stories and even your secretes to me. I’m sorry if I blurted some of them. But honestly I keep my pace on with that. I miss talking with you. I miss the talks about our love lives, about our cute endearments. I miss your honest advice. I may be older than you, but you’re way too cooler than me. I’m sorry if you felt I treated our friendship like a trash. Don’t ever think about that. I love you and I Miss you.

(3) To my Grade 5-6 Bestfriend. Hey! How are you? I hope you’re doing fine. I miss you sweet girl. I miss our girl talks; I miss the crazy things we did. I miss hanging out with you, because you’re the girl that cherishes the friendship the most. I’m sorry if you didn’t feel that you’re important to me. I really appreciate and I love when you visit into our house and we have a little chit chat. Some part of my happy life are because of you darling. I miss you please forgive me if I didn’t cope up with our friendship. I love you and I miss you.

(4) For some people who’ve I hurt that I didn’t know. Well, sorry, really. I didn’t mean it and I want to have a good pact with you. I’m sorry if I offended you, if I hurt you physically or emotionally. I’M REALLY SORRY. AM I FORGIVEN?

Lastly, to the people who broke my heart, my soul.

There’s good news for you. You’re forgiven.

(1)    To the boy bestfriend I trusted so much but chose to break my trust, okay I hate you for that. REALLY. I hate you so much that I bring those bad feelings till now. I can’t even imagine why you have to do those things to a girl who trusted you so much and treated you like a brother. Honestly, you’re such a jerk. But what came up to me is that, what am I gonna do with those bag full of bad shit feelings about you? I can’t carry them anymore. I am too tired to feel the hatred for you. So I am giving it away now. I am willing to forgive you. I love myself and I am giving myself a treat— a chance of freedom.

(2)    To my first love. Thank you. Just be happy. It’s not your fault anyway. Though, you somehow made me feel like a trash. But again thank you, you don’t know how I am grateful right now. I am much more complete. Keep safe. Let’s be happy! You’re forgiven.

(3)    For people who’ve hurt me, even for a little span of time, for breaking my heart, for wanting me to cry, for all the stupid gossips you made just to ruin me, for all the bad things you did, for all the judgments you assure is right about me, I hate you. But I chose to forgive you. I don’t want to feel the bad things right now. Because it is happy to live life without so much hatred in your heart.

So I am giving you the question of a lifetime, a one chance of becoming happy.

Are you okay with keeping those shits? Or can you exactly say sorry and forgive?

Think about it.

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Why men in 20’s don’t settle down.

Men, just like women have so many issues in their life. Women speak out for that, but as for men, as defining them to be the powerful, strong, confident guy never speaks out for it. But to tell you the truth, they just keep it inside. So why does men sometimes lead to a break up after three months or two months of relationship? Why does it happen all over again? And it feels like they are finding something or maybe someone that they can’t find?

Well, some of the guys maybe don’t feel like turning their relationships into the next level or maybe they don’t need a girl to complete them— just for now.

But some other dudes there got a thing for girls, got an eye for a girl, got a heart for a girl but still some things pre-occupied their mind and let them to a thought that there is something lacking about them.

So what it is?

(1)    Friends

-Guys sometimes feels fine and are more attentive to their ‘happy times’ and ‘guy thingy’ they thought about more happiness, more adventures, and more stories to come out because of their friends that sometimes they forget about their romantic relationship. It is also the why some guys don’t settle down at 20’s because they thought of lacking time for his partner or for his friends, well either of the two when he’s not already ready he’ll just choose the latter one.

(2)    Career

-Well it is so obvious, that some professional and workaholic guys focus on their career and what more can bring our of this things. They look over for more opportunities in life and they enjoy mostly the time they spend for just working. Seems so impossible but some guys do that. So yeah, guys who are not ready to settle down mainly concerns more about their work and priorities in life that they somehow forget the love they once had.

(3)    Finding what path to choose

- It just mainly the belief of ‘finding their selves’, finding their identity’. It seems a phrase full of shit, but of course when you still find yourself, when you still want to learn more about you, you focus on yourself, you are minding your own. When this guys had a relationship in turns out that it didn’t work that well, it’s because they are unsure of some things and somehow they didn’t know where to start.

(4)    Immaturity and Emotionally unprepared

- Another thing is that some guys are still on the ‘boy toy thing’ nothing serious, nothing more. Just ready to play video games and collect characters of some superheroes and villains on his favorite magazine. Do you remember the movie ’40 year old virgin’? Steve Carell played a man who’s still a virgin, but to tell you it’s just that he’s not that ready and still immature about accepting things as a man and by the way part of it was his action figures.

(5)    Finding Mrs. Right

-Cheesy as it may sounds, but yeah it is somehow the reason why we go and push so hard on relationships but didn’t turn out well. Then we get tired of it and we choose to stop for some time. Then it’s just the thought of ‘he’s still looking for the right women’. And when he surely does, when that time comes, somehow those things that make him unprepared and unready will just turn upside down.

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She’s not a girl anymore but a woman (Tips for guys)

There are quite differences when it comes to Girl and Woman same with the Boy and Man. Well, this ideal for people who finds a partner who wants to settle down, who wants to be matured enough in handling a serious relationship and to luckily find your other half.

Men nowadays, thought that Girls are trending and Woman is scarcity. Usually it is about the time that guys find this ‘scarce’ woman in order also for them to have a partner that can understand them and can act independently and controlled themselves even in unusual ways.

Remember it’s not about the age. Sometimes even younger age of gals act like women.

1.       Girls think that Men understand their thoughts. Women speak words. This one is given. Girls actually feel that when they do think of something their man feels the same way as they thought but actually not. Because girls think differently from men. When women wants to voice out they actually do speak words and not hide it which actually a sign of maturity that men will actually understands.

2.       Girls wear fancy, sexy, revealing clothes. Women look sexy even if they only wear T-shirts. Girls wear fancy things, more accessories and revealing clothes it’s because they are more creative and enjoying the fashion trends in different blogs! But that doesn’t mean that women don’t do that kind of trends, they do only they wear it occasionally. Even if they only wear a simple shirt and pants they still look so damn hot and sexy. –that is a woman, no need some headbands and clips.

3.       Girls are still inside the box. Women are more of outside the box. Girls keep what they believe in what they know is right and wrong. When they simply think how the things matter to them that is their idea. But women actually think of a larger horizon, they not keep the ideas in a one box. They have many options and have larger thoughts of deciding and thinking about things.

4.       Girls watch. Women read. Girls mostly are fund of watching junk tv shows and enjoy for a moment. Women did much more of the reading, getting some ideas and learning’s about the novel. They get more perspectives about this.

5.       Girls are dependent. Women are independent. Financially, emotionally. Girls still need some guidance and of course expect someone for them to provide for their needs. While women are independent of this and you don’t need to pay the cab for them.

6.       Girls talk about matters. Women can stimulate conversations. Girls mostly lack the knowing in global affairs and don’t have much hobbies and interests. Women can handle conversations and can talk about it and will fascinate you still.

7.       Girls eat salad. Women eat whatever they want. Women eat healthily because they respect their bodies. Girls eat healthily to let everyone else know that they are eating healthily. A real woman will sit down and have a burger and fries with you, with no fuss. She knows she can and because she wants to, she will.

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Epitomy and Symphony: When HIM finally met HER (List of the things that ...

Epitomy and Symphony: When HIM finally met HER (List of the things that ...: Do gals are the only one who believes in ‘Forever?’, ‘In happy ending?’, ‘True Love’, ‘Sparks’ and ‘Endless Love’? What about the dudes? ...

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When HIM finally met HER (List of the things that Men usually did when he really Likes the Woman)

Do gals are the only one who believes in ‘Forever?’, ‘In happy ending?’, ‘True Love’, ‘Sparks’ and ‘Endless Love’? What about the dudes? Of course they do. Some of you won’t believe that or maybe you’ll just shake your head and disapproves. But to tell you the truth, SOME GUYS do believe in those things, that’s when they finally meet the RIGHT GIRL for them. And we don’t know about that, to tell you honestly, but maybe what are the things that could possibly lead you to believing that this guy has forever in his heart?

1.       When He thinks of you mostly. He starts the day thinking of you and end the day still thinking of you. It may be physically, or by texting or calling, but the great part ladies, is that your face is in his head. And it’s a nice point for you girls, because he’s crazy about you. Something might give him a hint that your personality is extraordinary.

2.       Even little things you did matters to him. Yup! No big surprises, even the little ones can get him into sparks fly. Men do appreciate that especially when it comes to their love ones. You may think it’s nothing but for them it’s the whole world to them and once it hit them so much there’s no turning back girls.

3.       He truly cares for you. He minds you a lot. Care what you’re doing; what you’ve been up to, he cares if you’ve eaten the lunch or dinner. He do all the caring because he’s treating you like a princess.

4.       Your imperfections are the perfect ones for him. It may sounds so cheesy but it does girls. Because he doesn’t see that in a bad way, he sees that as you, being true to yourself and therefore he loves it more.

5.       You laugh at crazy things and mostly only the two of you can only understand about it. That’s the thing about connections. You have a special wire that connects you and him. A simple look may mean something and you’ll get it in just a snap it’s because you understand him. That simple joke will make you the both of you laugh hard and will make even more funny when time comes.

6.       There’s no dull time. He doesn’t mind if you’re not doing interesting or something. Sometimes, man has a full time potential of by just looking at your beautiful face.

7.       He wants you to be there in his special occasions. He wants you to be there to witness his success, his triumphs because It means that you are part of it and he wants to show you that this man is more than anything else to prove to you that his good enough and man-up.

8.       He wants you to be there even in the saddest moment of his life. Well, true enough maybe he doesn’t tell you this, but girls it is important for a man to know that you’re there to listen. LISTENING is enough, enough talking so much I will only irritate them.

9.       He doesn’t laugh about your insecurities. He didn’t make it so hard to be an issue but instead he listens and tries to be a friend in your most ‘girly’ times.

Well honestly, there are more of that. We can’t measure how a Man loves his Woman, but whatever it is when the time is actually right and the moment is all set and done. He’ll just know that you’re the ones for him. 

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