4:40 Made up poems

(Made by yours truly :) 

I swam through the rivers of your soul

-it was so deep and void.

Made up of love’s sacrifices,

that’s never been returned.

How I love to dig down unto it more;

Even though my heart would explode.

You are like a shadow;

So vain and dishonest

I wanted you for all days,

Yet you came without rays.

I needed you when I don’t

Yet you’ve shown like before.

Unmade sheets are very special to me,

it is so honest that I can smell you from within.

It is so honest that I can play what memories lack.

It is so honest that I know I can’t have you back.

You leave me with a scar that’s naked.

Forever thorn, forever unshaken.

This is what you do when you left people’s heart out of the blue.

You show them how red can be hue.

How beautiful it is to meet a stranger,

not knowing you, not knowing him.

But stories are made for one another.

Goodbye to you my dearest man,

For once, I’ve been blown by your laugh,

For once, I’ve been shaken by your touch.

But now, for once, I’ve waken my soul to left you behind.

Simple things make the most of unexpected days.

It will give you peace you keep searching on unwanted scenes.

He’s like the last carousel ride in a fair;

Everyone’s done for the last trail,

Yet I am here round and around till I go.

My letters are not yet frozen,

It still has the mouth to speak out the words I long for you.

It is never been redesigned. It was always for you.

I watched through my window as the pink skies grow wider and wider.

It can fill up the whole town in its arm;

yet I’m still here yearning for love.

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To all the boys we loved before

     

     **To the guy I’ve known for so long, who suddenly become my best friend, my super bud, my food buddy and my confidante, partners in crime for life right? Thanks for being with me all the time you never know how much I appreciate this kind of friendship that we have. It isn’t for just a good time, I know. It feels so easy to talk about anything with you and it feels so safe to share about my problems with you without being judged. I can get the most exact comments from you, no filter, no sugar coating of words, you just say the exact truth. We laugh at the most bizarre things, we act like brothers, we share the common grounds and I thank heavens for sending me a friend like you. No drama.

**To the guy I’ve already forgiven, now. Now is the time I guess, to fill my heart with forgiveness. I will never forget of course, but surely I can forgive you. I don’t want to dwell in that gloomy past. I love myself so I am forgiving you.

**To the guy I’ve met in a deserted lane. We’ve crossed the same path, made a quick glance to one another, held hands but eventually didn’t stay for too long, it’s okay. We didn’t push ourselves too hard. Maybe it’s right, it feels okay but not right for too long. It just happened that we’re walking on that lane for the same day, but have different journeys to take.

**To the guy I’ve hoped. I still didn’t get the chance to meet you or maybe I already did? I don’t know. Maybe we already crossed the path, tend to look on each other but never said anything. I’m wondering what kind of lesson I might get from you. But surely, we’ll know each other.

**To the guy I gave nothing but heartaches. I am deeply sorry. You met me at my worst, where all things just go wrong in my mind, where I can’t think straight, where my only concern is my well being. You love me but all I did was to break your heart. You’ll always be a part of my life, strange as it seems, I learned a lot from you.  Selfish to realize but yes, someone can love me and can offer his whole Universe.  Thank you and sorry, I know you’re doing well now and I wish you well.

**To the guy who crossed my path for a thousand times, I guess you’re free now. I can’t say more, cause all my letters in the past were always about you. So I’ll just stop here for good.

** To the guy, I’m giving my heart, please take care of it. Please have patience with it, please have it for a lifetime. Let’s be psychos, weirdos and crazy together. I can’t wait for the moment when the both of us are just two individuals, watching the sunset, watching the rain from outside, sipping coffee, reading books, going anywhere or nowhere, watching movies (Either X-men or Before sunset will do), telling our stories, fighting to worthless or significant topics we will encounter, or maybe just being us, just two individuals with the same insights and feelings. Let it be like an indie song. 

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Fool's gold

You've been always my favorite person, my favorite song, my favorite past. But today, I will start my life without you.

I’ll never forget you. I’ll never forget how we used to be best friends, and then became lovers with a tough love and now, it all comes back again to where we used to be, and we’re good as strangers.

You’re my first love, the first man I always wanted to be with, the one I always wanted to end up with in every step of the way. The reason why I believe that love can be so genuine. The reason why I am happy and for some moment I feel so alive.

But we always go the wrong way.

You’re a time destroyer.

Maybe what we have is different. We love each other, but will never be together, we end up hating and hurting each other … and that’s enough.

I’m not letting you go. I’m letting my feelings go.

I have to accept the fact, that there are people that once were lovers, that once had the most beautiful stories, that once had the most amazing dreams for each other, but will never be together. 

Maybe we always came back for each other, but we always lose the chances that time gave us. It’s such a beautiful grunge love story.  I’ll be keeping these memories, that once I met someone like you. That once, someone made me feel like a flower. But I never wanted to be a flower. 

I want to be happy. I need someone that will never leave me. 

We’ll be alright.

Goodbye to my almost ‘always’. 

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Why we keep on coming back?

Dear _____,

I have a song for you.

“True love they use to say won’t leave you astray, but hey babe we can start all over again, we’re going home”. There may be a hundred reasons why we failed in the first try, a hundred reasons why we broke up, a hundred reasons why we decided and called it quits. But if there’s one reason why we always wanted to come back, maybe that reason is too strong compared to the hundred reasons why we grow apart. That one reason maybe could bring us back together again. To start again, to add it in our memories, that time we might grow together again.

But people don’t always get lucky. Not all of us can get a second, third or fourth chances in lives. So when we have it, when we are able to grab those chances, we should keep it as an air in our lungs. Treasure it and don’t ever waste it.

Given us the familiarity, that certain voice or feelings, we should keep it alive. We should bury it in our hearts; no one can steal it, trust me it’s ours. 

This should be kept a worthwhile memory.

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10 WAYS FOR A HEALTHIER AND HAPPIER YOU; BETTER EACH DAY

It’s been quite awhile since I’ve been reading 365 ways of a healthier and happier you better each day by Jessica Cassity and before having this book I have a loooong way of figuring out which and why to buy a book for that day. Actually that day, I feel so down and uneasy with myself that I have decided to buy a book that will inspire me. (1) What career to choose on (2) Do I need to change directions? (3) Misdirection of what path to choose on (4) How to be happy and successful. These are the thoughts that keep on playing in my mind while I scan the books and find my perfect match.

I have come to like 6 books. (1) How to be successful in your chosen career (2) Things that scares you (3) Things that inspires you (4) Steps on moving forward (5) The answer to your questions (6) The book I have finally chosen.  I am really torn to number 1, 5 and 6. But I chose the latter. 365 days for a happier you, hmmm sounds good for spending 800 php for a book. It will be a great help for me every day since every time I can read just one page on it and then learn something from it to hopefully apply on that specific day. I haven’t finished the book yet, of course. But while I’m scanning, I have chosen ten things that I/You can do for a day and just ease your mind and somehow feel better than okay.

(1)   Television viewing doesn’t actually let you unwind – Instead, go for a walk or look at the nature outside if you really wanted to relax, cause watching TV, is not really for relaxation, it is for entertaining so having said it, your mind is still working. They’ve said that just by looking a tree outside, it will make you feel good somehow, because a tree represents hope.

(2)   Don’t skimp on sleep – Sleep deprivation will lead your brain to function below its full potential. If you have a presentation/exam tomorrow better prepared earlier and take a nap to refresh your brain because if you keep on studying even if you’re tired, 40% of the information will take in into your brain. (P.S Sometimes, this thing does not go well to many of us, but at least try some time and observe if it works on you).

(3)   Nix the iced tea to prevent kidney stones – According to Loyola University Chicago’s Stritch School of Medicine, if ice tea is your favorite thirst-quencher, you may likely to put yourself into having kidney problems. The culprit is oxalate, a chemical found in tea that is the key for the formation of small salt and mineral crystals. So, I might be ordering lemonade or water that can actually inhibit the growth of kidney stones.

(4)   Invest in Happiness – This is an all time favorite tag, yet it is true. Studies shows that spending money on shopping can make you actually feel better but sooner declines, but having to spend your money on a weekend vacation, having to learn diving or exploring the beaches or fell in love with the nature, it is much more satisfying and a good start to invest.

(5)   Deter dementia with higher education – European researchers have actually added to your pro-school list. If you’re thinking of going back to school again, chances are you reduce the risk of having dementia by 11%. Scientists found that for each year of education you accumulate, education somehow makes the brain better able to compensate for changes brought by dementia.

(6)   Addicted to your ex? Just wait it out – This is how it goes, researchers from New York and New Jersey looks at the brain of an individual who has been recently rejected. According to them, part of the brain that responded to the experiment while the individual was looking to photos of her ex was the same area that is active when cocaine addicts experience cravings. You see? It is an addiction, but an addiction to a person can be broken, unlike any other addiction, IT TAKES TIME.

(7)   Your slim-down secret weapon: A bus pass – It is just simply saying that, one way to slim down is by taking a bus for a ride because according to scientists, it actually helps you to lose weight! Plus, it saves you from spending money on your gas and parking!

(8)   Free yourself from the fear of failure – We all have been talking about this, don’t be afraid, try it out and work it out. “Fear of failure is related to a form of perfectionism, specifically what researchers refer to as socially prescribed perfectionism” according to David E. Conroy, PhD.

(9)   Protect your skin like a pro – Summer is really ON! And it feels like you’re too tired to celebrate summer when the sun is tickling your skin too much! So here’s a tip. Use a sun block instead of sun screen, because sun block has more broad spectrum and usable on all skin types, causing less irritations. Also, reapply at least every two hours while outdoors.

(10)The benefits of saying Thank you- Don’t let good deeds go un-thanked. Saying thank you can actually lead you to an improved mood. Reflect on the ways that others might actually did something to you and touched you, recognize this people by just simply saying thank you.

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What to do when you feel like giving up

             “Don’t stop believing… hold on to that feeling”

                                                                        -Journey

“It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.”

                                                            -William Shakespeare

There are moments in our lives when we feel like we are alone in this dark and empty room, that is full of the things we almost scared about, the things we don’t supposed to see and feel and the things that mostly, eat us alive. We are all human and it is given that we are capable of anything, anything that makes us humane. There are sudden moments in our lives that we feel unimaginably happy and excited, moments in our lives where we almost feel like a feather just floating in the air, or moments in our lives where we feel invisible or just walk into nothingness.

When we’re happy it carries us for a moment, but when we are so down it occupies the moment in our life. But don’t let it take you over.

Whoever you are right now, reading this, I want to help you get through this.

1.      

      You are never alone

Simply think that it is not only you who experience this kind of stuffs. The only difference is how you deal and act on it. Some may passes it by, some don’t actually care, some may be so depressed right now or some may actually thought that they’re bigger than what they’re facing for. And for that, you’re never alone. Share it to a trusted one, your family, your friend, your sister or brother, but most especially share it to your creator and savior.

2.       Remind yourself, why you started this.

Of course, there are reasons for all the causes. Why you ended up depressed or sad? Why give up? What’s the reason to give up? But the root of all these, why you started it off at first? And believe me, if the reason is too strong, you won’t give up.

3.       Don’t hate the player! Change the game!

If you really thought that you’re not good enough at that certain moment in your life, then don’t really hate yourself! Find a way to get what you want! Change the game! Be the rules! Don’t give up!

4.       There is sunshine after the rain

Cliché it may seems but even the song makes up a point. There are no up if there are no downs, no dawn if there are no dark. There is no harm in trying, give it a shot, don’t give up on the first try! And when you feel like you’re in the lowest point of your life, don’t let it knock you down!

5.      Be able to know when to quit.

Sometimes it is not time to give up. But it may be time to quit what you are doing and to try something else.  Giving up something you like is harder than to let go of the things you surely forget in an instance. If you feel like giving up or you are bored a lot, if you feel no real passion or excitement or curiosity change your course. But remember, do not give up if it’s really in your mind and soul, if the fateful bliss of yours keeps whispering to do it that this is the right thing to do, then why not try to do it again?

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What it feels to have a best friend like “Ms. Bulgaria?”

  

First, congrats Miss Universe Pia Wurtzbach!

Today’s Miss Universe 2015 has been super trendy especially on different social media accounts due to what happened on the said event. And Filipinos are very hooked on the event making them to create different memes and using hash tag like #columbianized. It really becomes a main issue especially the announcement of the Miss Universe winner by Steve Harvey, the some scenes of ‘disrespecting’ Miss Universe Pia by other candidates, Miss USA being the “best bestie” of Pia and of course the supports of other candidates like Miss Myanmar and Miss Malaysia and the trending Miss Bulgaria for showing the energy of supporting our Queen Pia.

Having a supporting bff throughout your whole event in life is really a great gift that life can offer to you. It is rare to find one. So when you know you have one, keep it.

“I’d rather have one REAL Best friend than 10 casual friends”

                It is like having a soul sister. You guys are really compatible, the perspectives, the ideas, and the interests are same. Both of you share the same views and outlooks in life. And it is true that it is more a blessing to have a one true real friend than to have so many friends that at the end of the day you can’t count on or you can’t even think to invite for a cup of coffee outside cause you feel indifferent.

“With friends, it is a matter of timing”

                Being in the right place at the right time, and we shall meet again. When it comes to friends, some come and some may go, but the best people in your life, will always stay. And in a cycle of friends, others may not go to some gatherings, others may always attend, but it doesn’t mean that the one who didn’t go that much will not stay in your heart.  Regardless of how many friends we have in our lives or how many cycles we have gone through, there is one thing that we are always searching for — and that is someone we can call a “best friend.”

“Finding a new best friend is as hard as finding your soul mate”

                That’s why when you know you found it, keep it. Even though both of you have something to be done of and need to separate a little while, continue to keep in touch and always remain the pact you guys did. It’s just distance. When you love someone and value them, meters won’t matter. As long as both of you are growing and achieving your dreams, just always support one another.  No matter how long it has been since you last met or how far apart you are, whenever you meet again it feels like home.

“Sometimes home is not a place”

                It is really good to have someone you can always count on, even if your day is sunny and can laugh all day and smile, even if your day is winter and cold and you need to cry for help and even if your day is just as cloudy as your heart. If you have a real best friend, you find a safe place, you became true and no need for hiding, cause she’s also true to you and no need for faking it. You find a safe home.

“You two can read each other’s mind”

                It’s nice to know you have someone who can think the same way you does. You can finish each other sentences or can understand things by just a glance. You guys have the same taste of friendship; you know how to ease each other’s feelings and no need to sugar coat things. It’s an instant connection that makes your heart feel warm.

If you have one, well congratulations!

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Why you should travel alone for sometime?

1. Solitude
The world outside is a terror. You only have yourself to calm your thoughts and feelings, to get away from a hungry world. Being quiet is different from solitude. You have the inner peace and silence, you are reserved. When you travel solo, you'll think about the things in your life. You suddenly figure out what's going on. This is a perfect comfort to yourself.

2. You'll love yourself even more
There are number of reasons to hate yourself when you are surrounded by the chaos of the world. You hate yourself for doing nothing or for doing everything. But travelling alone, you'll figure out who's your real friend, you befriend yourself. There's only one you.

3. You'll be assertive
This is a time for adventure. You travel solo, you'll never know what's going to happen or who you'll meet. It's a total blank, but you're ready to color it. Loneliness will pass, because you found yourself talking, laughing with these different people.

4. EAT
This time it's your choice. You have no doubt of eating your fave sandwhiches, nachos or fish head curry, by thinking if your friends like it or not. It's all up to you.

5. A chance of having a total freedom
You're the driver of your car, you're the leader of this journey, the captain of your ship. You'll be independent, doing whatever you wanted, going whenever you wanted. It is a passion of your mind.

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Which Taylor Swift song your love life is?

1. Love Story
Of course, this is the very popular song of T.S where we all fall in love out of the lyrics and it's a cliche kind of love story of Romeo and Juliet. We've been familiar about that, the kind of love that can't be and have many obstacles around through it, though both of you guys are head over heels to each other and it's a sad thing but fight for it. If it's still in your heart and mind, it is worth taking the risk.

2. Wildest dreams
Awwww... this song is one of my fave. You only see him in your dreams, it is like an imaginary love. The love you both had is just for "entertaining". You both have a good careers in life & you two have an undeniable sparks. But at the end of the day, off the pages, you can't be together, he's got a girl & you only have him in your dreams.

3. We are never ever getting back together
Well, if you are determined with that strong words of yours, sure this is for you  cause you never plan to get back again with him. Somethings can't be mend again & the love you had once is out of the place.

4. Forever & Always
Does he left you and broke up with you through a phone call (this is terrible), does he left you for another girl? And you are just there thinking why he did it and left you hanging? This song denotes for a bad break up. "Did I say something way too honest?/ That made you run and hide like a scared little boy?"

5. Out of the woods
This song is a kind of relationship where you were living day to day not knowing where to go next, or if it was going to go anywhere. It's like he don't have plans for the both of you, you hope for a chance but he don't have an idea what to do next.

6. Blank space
It's your story, it's like a hidden list of the guys you like, love and care about, but some people think of you as crazy and you are one of an obsessed girl.

7. Back to December
This is a sad song, one day you've met, you jive along, you felt something inside of youand makes you dizzy but happy & you can't deny there is something special about it. But one day again, all is gone. You didn't know what happened. It just stop. And all is going in your mind is how is he? You just hope to be back to where things supposed to be back then.

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Things your "real" bestfriend will tell you straight to your face

Admit it, at one point in your spice girls, the means girls, or wild child theme groups, there is just  one person whom you are much closer than the others. That one person where you can jive along, talk anything under the sun without even trying to be somebody else, talk your deepest secrets and understand each other too well. There is one person that you can trust that probably you can't give to the other friends inside the cycle. Or if you're in a situation where there is just only the two of you, but not feeling there's a lack of something and just giving the best pieces of advices even if it hurts to well. But sometimes 'real' friends do that. You just know it, that somehow they are right. They hit you an arrow landed straight to your heart & mind.

1. "You ate too much"/ "You are getting fat"/ "Shut up you're not fat, eat something!"
When it comes to food, diet or a healthy lifestyle, bestfriends (esp. Girls) are too much aware of it, well we must be. But those who really take food in a serious matter, some bff's are the one who measure the level of your bod. Yes. There is someone who can tell you the truth behind your diet or eating habits. If they are real friends they'll tell you if you're not taking care of yourself whether you ate too much or ate nothing at all though you're skinny. Note, it's not just about if you're fat or skinny, but the fact that your bff cares about your lifestyle, keep that one friend.

2. "That make up, sucks in your face"/ "You're too pale, have a lip bum"/ "You're wearing too much make up"
Take it as a good advice especially if your bestfriend is a real fan of cosmetic stuffs. You are lucky to have someone teach you how to do the make up that still looks natural on you plus she wants you to look better.

3. "That outfit is a total bullshit"/ "That outfit doesn't look good on you"/ "You look fantastic"
If it's your real bff, sure she will take a good comment about your style on the day you were about to have a dinner with the boy you like. She'll not bluff anything or praise your look good even if it doesn't.

4. "He doesn't like you"/ "He doesn't love you"
Bestfriend's advice ,in terms of your love life takes a  big part of your decision making. If she's a real bff she's concern about your feelings or the story about the boy you like at school. Since the day you talk about that guy you're drooling to, she cares for the outcome, sometimes she'll try to sneak a little detail of your guy and investigate anything fishy about it. And they do, sometimes you have to believe them, they see something else on that guy that somehow you can't see because your eyes are covered by his muscles.

5. "You're failing, we have to study"
This is  the best thing about having bestfriends, there is someone you can lean to and someone who can lift you up when you're down. You help each other. So when she knows that you are getting a F in a test, she's there to help you and not to bring you down. When you love someone, you care for them and you are willing to help in order for her to turn back again on track.

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A letter from the girl about celebrating V-day in two special ways

                You did two things for me.

The guy I dated last Valentine’s Day was from the same school I attended. He was the guy that every cheerleader’s cheering for, he was the guy that every guy’s friend would love to hang out to, because he’s simple and yet funny. He was the guy who kept his intelligence by himself and I know that because once, we’ve competed in a home economics test.  He may be sometimes getting a lot too serious about business matters but one day along the hallway I saw him smile. That was the day I thought that this guy might be my future. I know I get too fast and that’s not right, but one thing I know that the cupid thing was right. I am finally feeling the fast beating of my heart.

                Summer came along and I can’t remember how happy I am, because on summer camping, there he was, the guy who wears a simple t-shirt but look so handsome and the smile that can lift up even the heavy boxes. I am truly into him. The rest of the summer stories were a history. We didn’t talk, we didn’t hang out, but at least we know each other’s by name. And at that one shot of the night, he asked my number.

                If you watch too many movies, I bet you know what happened next. Valentine’s Day: I wear red dress, do my simple make-up trick and just lay back my long hair. Once upon time we thought we were lovers, we thought that everything was magical and alright. That was the first V-day I had with him and that is the good one.

                The second and maybe should I called the last V-day I celebrated it with him was the day I finally had to let go of him. It was hard and it was awful, I thought it was the end. I thought that celebrating that event is very stupid.

Until once upon a time again… while walking alone and celebrating V-day, crying. Someone offered me a bouquet of roses and there was the guy in the camp, the other guy I barely know but knows a lot of me. The other guy who always watched me, the other guy who was a friend with the g guy who left me, the other guy who got my number. He was that… guy and from that special day I didn’t walk alone.

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I’m not a Girl not yet a Woman... Dear Britney Spears

Dear Britney Spears,

Your song really fits my in-“between” problem. I’m totally into your song. And I wonder why these words came up. Why? Did you also write this as for realizing some changes in you? Physically? Mentally? Emotionally? Cause honestly if you do, then we have the same track baby. It started when I feel lonely, yes lonely for most of the times. I don’t know but sometimes I just started to think things in a different way and surprisingly it made me feel lonely. When I was a girl I don’t give a damn if my skirt was too short, if my hair doesn’t flow perfectly, if my body was sexy or not. I just ate a lot of junk and store it in my trunk. I don’t care about the world. I just wanna play and watch endless Disney films. It made me happy you know. But this time it’s totally different. I happen to know the word “metamorphosis”. Yes, just like a cockroach (eggs) turns into an adult stage. I am much more different now. I know I have to take some precautions because now, I am not a Girl. I care about more of my looks now. I care too much it hurts my head. I care about the prom, about what facial cream to use, about what dress to choose, about the cool guy in school, about my friends, about my parents adding rule no.67 “curfew hours”. I get so lonely about it sometimes. Because I’m not used to it but fortunately I’m part of it. It’s inborn. It’s destined to every person—to constantly change. This is it! It’s a mind game. I am not used to it. I am not ready for the choices, the judgements, the decisions, and the people and especially about myself. I am getting to know more about myself Britney and I am afraid I am concern with your chosen lyrics in your song “Life doesn’t always go my way”. What’s bugging me right now, is actually of becoming a Woman. Will I ever be a good mom? Will I ever got a stable job and support myself? Will I ever meet the right person to be with? Or will I just mess the whole things up? Sometimes I get too sad and believe it or not I judge people… mostly about young kids. Because now that I am a Lady, I am not used to seeing young couples kissing in PUBLIC places, I mean really KISS, I get annoyed by looking at those pictures showing some of her “flesh” and I am not an old maid to act like this. It’s just that I am Lady now. I know in myself that I am starting to grow—deeply. I started to see things differently and more seriously. I work hard now, I left the play stage. But thinking about it, I am just a Lady, Not a girl… but also not a Woman. My stage now is heading me for a new adventure right? For new learning’s in life and maybe somehow prepare me for the next stage right? Well maybe. It is possible. So “There is no need to protect me. It's time that I learn to face up to this on my own. I've seen so much more than you know now, So don't tell me to shut my eyes”. Maybe I just need some understanding right now, cause honestly I am quite not sure about it either. “All I need is love a moment that’s enough….”

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She’s not a girl anymore but a woman (Tips for guys)

There are quite differences when it comes to Girl and Woman same with the Boy and Man. Well, this ideal for people who finds a partner who wants to settle down, who wants to be matured enough in handling a serious relationship and to luckily find your other half.

Men nowadays, thought that Girls are trending and Woman is scarcity. Usually it is about the time that guys find this ‘scarce’ woman in order also for them to have a partner that can understand them and can act independently and controlled themselves even in unusual ways.

Remember it’s not about the age. Sometimes even younger age of gals act like women.

1.       Girls think that Men understand their thoughts. Women speak words. This one is given. Girls actually feel that when they do think of something their man feels the same way as they thought but actually not. Because girls think differently from men. When women wants to voice out they actually do speak words and not hide it which actually a sign of maturity that men will actually understands.

2.       Girls wear fancy, sexy, revealing clothes. Women look sexy even if they only wear T-shirts. Girls wear fancy things, more accessories and revealing clothes it’s because they are more creative and enjoying the fashion trends in different blogs! But that doesn’t mean that women don’t do that kind of trends, they do only they wear it occasionally. Even if they only wear a simple shirt and pants they still look so damn hot and sexy. –that is a woman, no need some headbands and clips.

3.       Girls are still inside the box. Women are more of outside the box. Girls keep what they believe in what they know is right and wrong. When they simply think how the things matter to them that is their idea. But women actually think of a larger horizon, they not keep the ideas in a one box. They have many options and have larger thoughts of deciding and thinking about things.

4.       Girls watch. Women read. Girls mostly are fund of watching junk tv shows and enjoy for a moment. Women did much more of the reading, getting some ideas and learning’s about the novel. They get more perspectives about this.

5.       Girls are dependent. Women are independent. Financially, emotionally. Girls still need some guidance and of course expect someone for them to provide for their needs. While women are independent of this and you don’t need to pay the cab for them.

6.       Girls talk about matters. Women can stimulate conversations. Girls mostly lack the knowing in global affairs and don’t have much hobbies and interests. Women can handle conversations and can talk about it and will fascinate you still.

7.       Girls eat salad. Women eat whatever they want. Women eat healthily because they respect their bodies. Girls eat healthily to let everyone else know that they are eating healthily. A real woman will sit down and have a burger and fries with you, with no fuss. She knows she can and because she wants to, she will.

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When HIM finally met HER (List of the things that Men usually did when he really Likes the Woman)

Do gals are the only one who believes in ‘Forever?’, ‘In happy ending?’, ‘True Love’, ‘Sparks’ and ‘Endless Love’? What about the dudes? Of course they do. Some of you won’t believe that or maybe you’ll just shake your head and disapproves. But to tell you the truth, SOME GUYS do believe in those things, that’s when they finally meet the RIGHT GIRL for them. And we don’t know about that, to tell you honestly, but maybe what are the things that could possibly lead you to believing that this guy has forever in his heart?

1.       When He thinks of you mostly. He starts the day thinking of you and end the day still thinking of you. It may be physically, or by texting or calling, but the great part ladies, is that your face is in his head. And it’s a nice point for you girls, because he’s crazy about you. Something might give him a hint that your personality is extraordinary.

2.       Even little things you did matters to him. Yup! No big surprises, even the little ones can get him into sparks fly. Men do appreciate that especially when it comes to their love ones. You may think it’s nothing but for them it’s the whole world to them and once it hit them so much there’s no turning back girls.

3.       He truly cares for you. He minds you a lot. Care what you’re doing; what you’ve been up to, he cares if you’ve eaten the lunch or dinner. He do all the caring because he’s treating you like a princess.

4.       Your imperfections are the perfect ones for him. It may sounds so cheesy but it does girls. Because he doesn’t see that in a bad way, he sees that as you, being true to yourself and therefore he loves it more.

5.       You laugh at crazy things and mostly only the two of you can only understand about it. That’s the thing about connections. You have a special wire that connects you and him. A simple look may mean something and you’ll get it in just a snap it’s because you understand him. That simple joke will make you the both of you laugh hard and will make even more funny when time comes.

6.       There’s no dull time. He doesn’t mind if you’re not doing interesting or something. Sometimes, man has a full time potential of by just looking at your beautiful face.

7.       He wants you to be there in his special occasions. He wants you to be there to witness his success, his triumphs because It means that you are part of it and he wants to show you that this man is more than anything else to prove to you that his good enough and man-up.

8.       He wants you to be there even in the saddest moment of his life. Well, true enough maybe he doesn’t tell you this, but girls it is important for a man to know that you’re there to listen. LISTENING is enough, enough talking so much I will only irritate them.

9.       He doesn’t laugh about your insecurities. He didn’t make it so hard to be an issue but instead he listens and tries to be a friend in your most ‘girly’ times.

Well honestly, there are more of that. We can’t measure how a Man loves his Woman, but whatever it is when the time is actually right and the moment is all set and done. He’ll just know that you’re the ones for him. 

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