Admit it, at one point in your spice girls, the means girls, or wild child theme groups, there is just one person whom you are much closer than the others. That one person where you can jive along, talk anything under the sun without even trying to be somebody else, talk your deepest secrets and understand each other too well. There is one person that you can trust that probably you can't give to the other friends inside the cycle. Or if you're in a situation where there is just only the two of you, but not feeling there's a lack of something and just giving the best pieces of advices even if it hurts to well. But sometimes 'real' friends do that. You just know it, that somehow they are right. They hit you an arrow landed straight to your heart & mind.
1. "You ate too much"/ "You are getting fat"/ "Shut up you're not fat, eat something!"
When it comes to food, diet or a healthy lifestyle, bestfriends (esp. Girls) are too much aware of it, well we must be. But those who really take food in a serious matter, some bff's are the one who measure the level of your bod. Yes. There is someone who can tell you the truth behind your diet or eating habits. If they are real friends they'll tell you if you're not taking care of yourself whether you ate too much or ate nothing at all though you're skinny. Note, it's not just about if you're fat or skinny, but the fact that your bff cares about your lifestyle, keep that one friend.
2. "That make up, sucks in your face"/ "You're too pale, have a lip bum"/ "You're wearing too much make up"
Take it as a good advice especially if your bestfriend is a real fan of cosmetic stuffs. You are lucky to have someone teach you how to do the make up that still looks natural on you plus she wants you to look better.
3. "That outfit is a total bullshit"/ "That outfit doesn't look good on you"/ "You look fantastic"
If it's your real bff, sure she will take a good comment about your style on the day you were about to have a dinner with the boy you like. She'll not bluff anything or praise your look good even if it doesn't.
4. "He doesn't like you"/ "He doesn't love you"
Bestfriend's advice ,in terms of your love life takes a big part of your decision making. If she's a real bff she's concern about your feelings or the story about the boy you like at school. Since the day you talk about that guy you're drooling to, she cares for the outcome, sometimes she'll try to sneak a little detail of your guy and investigate anything fishy about it. And they do, sometimes you have to believe them, they see something else on that guy that somehow you can't see because your eyes are covered by his muscles.
5. "You're failing, we have to study"
This is the best thing about having bestfriends, there is someone you can lean to and someone who can lift you up when you're down. You help each other. So when she knows that you are getting a F in a test, she's there to help you and not to bring you down. When you love someone, you care for them and you are willing to help in order for her to turn back again on track.
