“Don’t stop
believing… hold on to that feeling”
-Journey
“It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in
ourselves.”
-William Shakespeare
There
are moments in our lives when we feel like we are alone in this dark and empty room,
that is full of the things we almost scared about, the things we don’t supposed
to see and feel and the things that mostly, eat us alive. We
are all human and it is given that we are capable of anything, anything that
makes us humane. There are sudden moments in our lives that we feel
unimaginably happy and excited, moments in our lives where we almost feel like
a feather just floating in the air, or moments in our lives where we feel
invisible or just walk into nothingness.
When we’re happy it carries us for a moment, but when we are
so down it occupies the moment in our life. But don’t let it take you over.
Whoever you are right now, reading this, I want to help you
get through this.
1.
You are never alone
Simply think that it is not only you
who experience this kind of stuffs. The only difference is how you deal and act
on it. Some may passes it by, some don’t actually care, some may be so
depressed right now or some may actually thought that they’re bigger than what
they’re facing for. And for that, you’re never alone. Share it to a trusted
one, your family, your friend, your sister or brother, but most especially
share it to your creator and savior.
2. Remind yourself, why you started this.
Of course, there are reasons for all
the causes. Why you ended up depressed or sad? Why give up? What’s the reason
to give up? But the root of all these, why you started it off at first? And believe
me, if the reason is too strong, you won’t give up.
3. Don’t hate the player! Change the game!
If you really thought that you’re not
good enough at that certain moment in your life, then don’t really hate
yourself! Find a way to get what you want! Change the game! Be the rules! Don’t
give up!
4. There is sunshine after the rain
Cliché it may seems but even the song
makes up a point. There are no up if there are no downs, no dawn if there are
no dark. There is no harm in trying, give it a shot, don’t give up on the first
try! And when you feel like you’re in the lowest point of your life, don’t let
it knock you down!
5.
Be able to know when to quit.
Sometimes it is not time
to give up. But it may be time to quit what you are doing and to try something
else. Giving up something you like is
harder than to let go of the things you surely forget in an instance. If you
feel like giving up or you are bored a lot, if you feel no real passion or
excitement or curiosity change your course. But remember, do not give up if it’s
really in your mind and soul, if the fateful bliss of yours keeps whispering to
do it that this is the right thing to do, then why not try to do it again?
