When guys do changes his expression that goes from happy eyes to glassy eyes then you definitely say something out of the border. Usually, guys are pretty accommodating with anything you say to them. They’re easy going and can put up with a bit of insults and let downs. But every now and then, there are a few things that may slip out of your mouth and hurt him way harder than you think. It is just simply means that men do have an ego and they have this kind of attitude that they made them to act like a man.
(1) Man up- This is something you really shouldn't tell. You’re not his mother or sister to tell this to your man to grow up and act like a man. He is a man, so if something’s wrong about him, learn to communicate without insulting him.
(2) We need to talk- This is absolutely uncomfortable to him. This phrase is the most likely to shift him into defensive mode. Try a more loving approach and you will surely get better results.
(3) I’m not your mother- Literally correct, but emotionally disturbing for a man. Keep your mom or his mom out of it. It is not really a good phrase for you to say to him.
(4) Is she prettier than me?/Do I look fat?- Girls. Girls. Girls. Sometimes it is irritating to ask it every time. He’s not a fashion expert or a health instructor. Men don’t like asking questions about that, they find it so ‘girly’ and fancy. If the question you’re asking him has only one acceptable answer – and if a too-long pause in responding will only feed your insecurities – just trust that his answer would have been the right one and don’t bother to ask it.
(5) Are you really that stupid?- Totally a NO. This is a word that will definitely hurt anybody’s feeling, not only your man. Treat him with respect and don’t act like you’re the main man and he’s the robin in the film. Man does have a pride, so don’t step on it and don’t belittle your guy.
(6) You’re just like my ex- WORSE. Don’t ever compare him to your past. It is an awkward comparison, besides it’s like stepping again his pride. It’s like telling him that you’re not good for me and I wish my someone come and rescue me from you. It’s a no.
(7) Never mind- Don’t dismiss the offers he had for you. Men like helping their girls even in the smallest thing on earth. They want to feel that they’re significant for their partner, or they want to be the hero in the scene. It’s their act of language, an act of service, an act of love. Don’t deny the chance for him to serve you.
(8) Your friend is so charming!- Don’t tell it to him, especially when you haven’t complimented your guy about the same trait.
(9) I've dated better guys- Just don’t hurt his pride okay? I mean it’s really an ‘ouchy’ phrase for you to tell it.
(10) You’re insecure- Sometimes they may feel so insecure about things. But don’t say it aloud it makes him feel so weak and helpless.
When guys do changes his expression that goes from happy eyes to glassy eyes then you definitely say something out of the border. Usually, guys are pretty accommodating with anything you say to them. They’re easy going and can put up with a bit of insults and let downs. But every now and then, there are a few things that may slip out of your mouth and hurt him way harder than you think. It is just simply means that men do have an ego and they have this kind of attitude that they made them to act like a man.
(1) Man up- This is something you really shouldn't tell. You’re not his mother or sister to tell this to your man to grow up and act like a man. He is a man, so if something’s wrong about him, learn to communicate without insulting him.
(2) We need to talk- This is absolutely uncomfortable to him. This phrase is the most likely to shift him into defensive mode. Try a more loving approach and you will surely get better results.
(3) I’m not your mother- Literally correct, but emotionally disturbing for a man. Keep your mom or his mom out of it. It is not really a good phrase for you to say to him.
(4) Is she prettier than me?/Do I look fat?- Girls. Girls. Girls. Sometimes it is irritating to ask it every time. He’s not a fashion expert or a health instructor. Men don’t like asking questions about that, they find it so ‘girly’ and fancy. If the question you’re asking him has only one acceptable answer – and if a too-long pause in responding will only feed your insecurities – just trust that his answer would have been the right one and don’t bother to ask it.
(5) Are you really that stupid?- Totally a NO. This is a word that will definitely hurt anybody’s feeling, not only your man. Treat him with respect and don’t act like you’re the main man and he’s the robin in the film. Man does have a pride, so don’t step on it and don’t belittle your guy.
(6) You’re just like my ex- WORSE. Don’t ever compare him to your past. It is an awkward comparison, besides it’s like stepping again his pride. It’s like telling him that you’re not good for me and I wish my someone come and rescue me from you. It’s a no.
(7) Never mind- Don’t dismiss the offers he had for you. Men like helping their girls even in the smallest thing on earth. They want to feel that they’re significant for their partner, or they want to be the hero in the scene. It’s their act of language, an act of service, an act of love. Don’t deny the chance for him to serve you.
(8) Your friend is so charming!- Don’t tell it to him, especially when you haven’t complimented your guy about the same trait.
(9) I've dated better guys- Just don’t hurt his pride okay? I mean it’s really an ‘ouchy’ phrase for you to tell it.
(10) You’re insecure- Sometimes they may feel so insecure about things. But don’t say it aloud it makes him feel so weak and helpless.
(1) Man up- This is something you really shouldn't tell. You’re not his mother or sister to tell this to your man to grow up and act like a man. He is a man, so if something’s wrong about him, learn to communicate without insulting him.
(2) We need to talk- This is absolutely uncomfortable to him. This phrase is the most likely to shift him into defensive mode. Try a more loving approach and you will surely get better results.
(3) I’m not your mother- Literally correct, but emotionally disturbing for a man. Keep your mom or his mom out of it. It is not really a good phrase for you to say to him.
(4) Is she prettier than me?/Do I look fat?- Girls. Girls. Girls. Sometimes it is irritating to ask it every time. He’s not a fashion expert or a health instructor. Men don’t like asking questions about that, they find it so ‘girly’ and fancy. If the question you’re asking him has only one acceptable answer – and if a too-long pause in responding will only feed your insecurities – just trust that his answer would have been the right one and don’t bother to ask it.
(5) Are you really that stupid?- Totally a NO. This is a word that will definitely hurt anybody’s feeling, not only your man. Treat him with respect and don’t act like you’re the main man and he’s the robin in the film. Man does have a pride, so don’t step on it and don’t belittle your guy.
(6) You’re just like my ex- WORSE. Don’t ever compare him to your past. It is an awkward comparison, besides it’s like stepping again his pride. It’s like telling him that you’re not good for me and I wish my someone come and rescue me from you. It’s a no.
(7) Never mind- Don’t dismiss the offers he had for you. Men like helping their girls even in the smallest thing on earth. They want to feel that they’re significant for their partner, or they want to be the hero in the scene. It’s their act of language, an act of service, an act of love. Don’t deny the chance for him to serve you.
(8) Your friend is so charming!- Don’t tell it to him, especially when you haven’t complimented your guy about the same trait.
(9) I've dated better guys- Just don’t hurt his pride okay? I mean it’s really an ‘ouchy’ phrase for you to tell it.
(10) You’re insecure- Sometimes they may feel so insecure about things. But don’t say it aloud it makes him feel so weak and helpless.
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