Wednesday, September 17, 2014

The Irony of Love



Love is crazy and so are people. We really don’t know what’s going on and why it has to happen. It is always unexplainable and unreasonable. The world is full of witches, werewolves, vampires, ghost and even monsters with one eye. You see it’s so magical and so is love. I imagine love as a crazy labyrinth that no one can escape and we were all going to be crazy. We are trapped in it.
I bet you know the song “Ironic” by Alanis right? I bet you know. “Well life has a funny way of sneaking up on you, when you think everything’s okay and everything’s going right and life has a funny way of helping you out when you think everything’s gone wrong and everything blows up in your face.”... “A traffic jam when you’re already late, a no-smoking sign on your cigarette break, it’s like ten thousand spoon when you all need is a knife, it’s meeting the man of my dreams and then meeting his beautiful wife and isn’t it ironic? Don’t you think?”
Same what is life brings to us then love it is.
The ironies of love.
- You love someone but this someone doesn’t like you either.
-Someone loves you but you never give a chance to that someone and yourself to love that someone back
-You had the right love at the wrong time (Somewhere Down the Road plays ♫♫)
-You’re on time but with the wrong love
-You left, he stayed.
-You came back for him, he leaves
-I love you, she loves you.
-You love her, I love you, and someone loves me too
- Say what, love? Why do you keep on messing with a good people with perfectly good hearts?
These are just some of the ‘funny’ stories in love. Some were afraid of fighting, some decided to let go, for some reasons you just notice that the one you love doesn’t love you back. Most relationships tend to fail not because of the absence of love, but because love is always present. It’s just that one was being loved too much, and the other was being loved too little. And that is true, in a relationship someone is stronger and the other is weaker, but that doesn’t mean the latter didn’t show his/her love. Most often, we fall in love with the person we think we love, but to only discover that for them we are just for past times. While the one who truly loves us remains either your friend or a stranger. When you think of your past love; you may view it as a failure; but when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or who lost. What’s important is that you know when to hold on and when to let go.  Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. But why is it that the greatest irony of love is letting go when you want to hold on, and holding on when you need to let go? You can never find the right person if you can never let it go of the wrong. Love is a painful gamble, you didn’t know what will happen next and that’s the thing, you became stronger, you become whole. And in the most unexpected way of life can bring, there in that middle of billion people walking, talking, laughing around—there is just one person you love. Isn’t it ironic?

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