Dear Stagger guys,
I use the word
“stagger” as an adjective and not a verb, for all the guys who mostly happened
to be shaky and unsteady when it comes talking to your “special girl”, we’ve
all seen this kind of scenario in movies, right? If you guys remember the movie
I love you Beth Cooper, then mostly you know what I mean. I bet you also know
the Sorcerer’s apprentice right? The guy staggers his words whenever he sees or
started talking with the apple of his eye. Believe me, it only happens to be
that unfortunate because these guys mostly fell out of love, fell out of sight
and mostly, fell out of words.
Then here comes
the guy who has all the confidence in the world, the football player guy, the
varsity player and the hunky-dunky in campus. They all communicate well when
they talk to their team mates, coach, teachers, or some other girls in campus
but not to the one who they truly admire. And that’s where the issue comes.
Some other guys
thought that talking too logical or too intelligent will make them superior in
conversation leading to the false belief that this kind of talking will make
their girl fall for their words, but some girl, they don’t buy it. They don’t
actually swallow your word-tionary.
So, to make her
finally decide that you’re someone’s worth talking to, and maybe someone’s
worth wasting the night with, then here are some tips for you guys!
( (1)
Don’t be too logical.
-Yes, it is good
to hear some witty words to you guys, but not to the point that you overcome
your girl’s emotion and believes. Believe me, it will hurt them. Thinking that
this guy is being too logical for their first date is a no no. So try to listen
and sympathize and move on after.
(2) Don’t tell stupid things
-You know the
stupid things, you know that. Now, when it comes to the girl don’t tell words
that will make them think that this guy is too cocky or too selfish.
(3) Have an answer
-This is mainly
the thing, when she asks you “What do you want to eat?” most guys will answer
“I don’t know, what do you want to eat?” The thing is girls and also guys don’t
know what exactly we want or feel. So when they asked you give an answer, at
least you made a comment, an idea for her to based, if she doesn’t likes your
idea, then at least you could know, and if she does, then you win.
(4) Don’t interview
-This is about
getting to know the answer, not the case that the girl is applying for you as
an assistant. Sure, you want to know her likes or what kind of things she get
interested, but always remember that you like this girl and you want to know
more about her, not in the matter that you have to interview her. Talk and have
a real conversation.
(5) Sorry not sorry
-Just stop
saying the sorry. Putting the word sorry before and after the sentence makes
you lame in front of her, plus it made some girls think that you truly made
something wrong.
PLUS: A manly
hand shake will always do the first introduction of you. Depending on how you acted
on your firm grip hand shake with another man then somehow it defines how you
firstly communicate with them. For your girls, have the proper hand shake if
you know what I mean.
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